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Ruth, 39
United States, Virginia, Petersburg

Offline, last seen Fri, 19 Dec 2025 16:06:20

About Me

Princess Leia, not Rapunzel. I tried this site a few weeks ago and have to admit I was disappointed by the shallow results. I am not here for a random shag. I don't need to advertise for that, were that the kind of woman I am. I'm a single mom of one teenage daughter. Her dad passed away a few years ago and I have had one boyfriend since. I have a degree in Anthropology, though I have been an ER veterinary technician for much of my life. So you could say I love people and animals, not necessarily in that order. ;-) I love music, rocks, bones, wood, travel, water... I love making or refinishing furniture and am working on learning upholstery. I sew quite a bit. I enjoy keeping a tidy, comfortable home where people can relax and are well-fed. I am tired of being single, for sure, but mostly, I'm bored out of my skull! I'm self-sufficient. I don't need anyone to take care of my daughter or me. I just want adult conversation and someone to do things with. The caveat is that I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship. So if you think you're going to drop in, with the moon in one hand, stars in the other, and I'm going to cave, forget it. I've been single for almost 4 years. I know what I want. I'm not going to manipulate anybody and I don't want to be manipulated. I just want to have fun, and if it turns into something more, great. While my IQ and education on paper look important, I would much rather be a mother, or working on furniture or taking care of animals. I find a man who can do things that I can't, who can fix things with his hands, who can remain calm in rough waters, who knows what family means and how to take care of one... A man who is a little old fashioned, with integrity, honor and respect, is a man worth his weight in gold. If that man has a relationship with God, I am over the moon. I attend church regularly. I would like to see one of my entrepreneurial projects (or more) take off. Farming and fishing for survival seems like a really great idea right now.; a dream I gave up to be a mother. Currently, I settle for antiquing, but, you know. You've seen the movies.Music: in many languages, classic rock, classic country (love Merle! as did Bob Marley, just so we're clear... Musica nortena, mariachi, cumbias, rock en espanol..... I love martial arts films, and cowboys. I also have a number of tattoos from my younger days. I'm not big on sports, or sitting still watching balls go back and forth for any amount of time, but besides that, I'm up for about anything... Or even a car. I would really just like to find someone to hang out with. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I wish you well in all your endeavors. Be excellent!Ademas, hablo espanol, asi es que si no hablas ingles, o quieres prefieres leer la novela en espanol, mandame mensaje y se lo traduzco. No hay problema! ;-) Coffee is always good. Somewhere easy to talk to each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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