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CherieOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
So after a few *** thinking that I really do need to put some information on this so I can weed out some of the stupidity. I am:* A constant work in progress* A devoted, responsible dog owner ( not being afraid of big dogs is a PLUS in my book!)* Loyal and honest- atleast I try to always be. Although if you are looking for perfection... keep fishing!* Open to all kinds of new adventures! No fear of heights, new foods, being in a room full of people I do not know, loosing at any sport or game ( I do not always have to win to have a good time, ) will try anything before I say no. I am not:* Interested in seeing naked pictures of you.(Atleast not at first :) )* Open to the idea of "open relationships"- once a friendship has evolved to a sexual relationship.* Your mother or your ex-girlfriend,ex-wife etc.* Going to be available at a moments notice. I am not just sitting and waiting for anyone to call. I am a "make plans" kind of person.*Interested in being a mother to your children. Or becoming a mother.* Looking for someone that needs me more then I need them. I am looking for: A man who will compliment my life not complicate it. I dont need you to pay my bills, fix my car, protect me at night, etc. I just want someone that makes the good things in life even better. I would have to honestly say that I am a good woman who can appreciate all that a good man is willing to give. Friendship has to be where it all starts. Ask me! Let's talk about it! That dinner and drink thing that EVERYONE seems to put on here just sounds so boring. So I would have to say that any first date that requires some thought would be pretty fun! This dating/hanging out thing should be fun! I don't need an expensive date to be happy. But I would appreciate some creativity.
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KelliOnline
Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
Friendly, Humanitarian, Honest, Loyal, Original, Inventive, Independent and Intellectual are some words to describe me. Exciting and unpredictable, yet somehow strangely detached. I have an eccentric personalities. I love trying new, unusual, and challenging, things which leads me in many directions. I am philanthropic and humanitarian by nature. I love trying to make the world a better place for all of us. But I'm not averse to risk taking. Their optimism and positive outlook, combined with idealism and the need to break new ground leads me into quite unfamiliar territory--not that this bothers me. Compassionate and sympathetic to the needs of others, I do like things to go my way. Freedom to roam and explore is all-important. I hate to be tied down. In love I am very passionate and romantic. One of the deepest needs is for a satisfying, complementary relationship, which gives me freedom and tolerance along with mental and physical stimulation. Unlike many, I rarely feel any pangs of jealousy. I can be very playful and attentive lovers if I feel physically aroused and attracted to you. Passion is what makes me feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. I need Intimacy. Which would be developed through sharing and very good communications over time. Intimacy is what makes me want to share and offer emotional and material support Commitment is what makes me want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough. Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time. I am patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence. Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers. I am calm, secure and un threatened. Love is an upper. It makes me feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning. The secret of our being is not only to live but also to have something to live for. Things I look for.....Honest: "If he says he'll call, be there or not date other women, he calls, is there and remains faithful." Supportive: "He's always pointing out the good things about me but he loves me for my faults too." Funny: "He MUST have a good sense of humor!" Caring: "He must remember to kiss you throughout the day."Sensitive: "Sensitivity is key, but not to the point of being wimpy." Loving: "He should be able to kiss away all his woman's pains and still manage to send chills down my spine when he does." Goal Oriented: "He should know what he wants and go for it. For example, my perfect man wanted me and got me!" Handsome: "Good looking is important, but inside as well as out!" In touch with his feminine side: "He will watch Charmed with me and not make sarcastic remarks." Financially Stable: "He doesn't have to be rich, just financially responsible." Fun: "He should be fun, exciting and somewhat spontaneous." Independent: "He should take care of himself, mentally, physically and spiritually" Cuddly: "He should hold you in bed at night when you are cold and not pull away even though he is sweating to death." Good to His Mother: "He shouldn't cling to his mother's apron strings like a momma's boy, but he loves and respects her very much. My mother always said you can tell a lot about a man by the way he treats his mother.";Must be willing to ask A perfect date is only in my mind. Now if a guy can create it without me telling him, then that's is something. But really, I would like the guy to pretty much have in mind what to do or where to take me on the first date. I like a man with some kind of control. And the date may not go as planned sometimes...but if I'm having a great time...and he's having a great time...that's good enough for me.
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AlfredaOnline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I'm a simple person, no drama. Love life, love my job, love my family, love my friends. Prefer to smile and enjoy each day. For sure a glass half full kind of woman. I don't like to be around negative people who complain about everything and suck the fun out of life. We ALL have issues and problems. How a man handles his problems can be the biggest turn on...or off!!!!! I put 100% into everything I do, at home, at my job, with my family and friends, and I expect the same in return. Integrity is very important to me. I will leave it at that. Oh, and no Mitches, lol.Food for thought:1. A girl throws tantrums. When displeased, upset or angry, she reacts just as she did as a child when she didn’t get her way with her parents. This often consists of screaming, pouting, giving the silent treatment, being passive aggressive and/or punishing. A woman still feels the emotions of being upset/displeased, but has cultivated the skill of responding versus reacting. She comes to the table as an adult, and communicates clearly what is bothering her.2. A girl perceives herself as a princess and believes people should treat her like so. She is entitled and feels that she is owed and therefore expects more than she appreciates. A woman, has standards (what she holds herself to) not expectations (what she projects on to others).3. A girl uses her physical beauty as her currency and basis of value. A girl may be so used to feeling validated through her looks and sexuality, that she uses this as her primary tool to get what she wants in life. A woman, knows her worth is beyond her physicality. A woman bases her value on her intelligence, her strength, her integrity, her values, her contributions, her humanity.4. A girl banks on a man to be her financial strategy. A woman plans to be financially independent – she banks on… herself. And if she so happens to enter a relationship dynamic where it makes sense for her partner to be the primary breadwinner, it’s considered a bonus, not the expected life line.5. A girl sees the world from a place of lack and scarcity. She competes and will even tear down another in order to secure resources or a mate. A woman helps other women. She knows that there’s plenty enough to go around and takes the high road of integrity to get what she wants.6. A girl cannot be bothered with anything domestic and is proud of the fact that she cannot cook or clean. A woman understands that being domestic is not a duty, but understands that it is one way of taking care of herself and others. She also understands that in the event she wants to create a family, having a person in the household who can contribute domestically is important.7. “A girl wants attention, a woman wants respect. A girl wants to be adored by many. A woman wants to be adored by one.” -anonymous8. A girl does not respect her body. She has not yet understood that her body and heart are sacred, and that it’s important to be mindful of how she treats it and who she shares it with. “A girl cherishes handbags, diamonds and her shoe collection as her prize possessions. A woman cherishes her health, her sense of self, and her talents as her greatest assets.” – N. Mah9. A woman takes the time to reflect on the type of human she wants to be, the example she wants to leave and the vision for her life. She has put thought into her values and what she stands for. A girl has not established her moral compass or values and consequently, is often inconsistent. “After spending time with a girl, you feel exhausted because she takes more than she gives. After spending time with a woman, you feel invigorated, because she empowers you with possibility, and a passion for life.” – N. Mah10. A girl has a checklist that prioritizes superficial qualities above anything else. Here is an example of how this checklist may look: Hot, popular, wears skinny jeans, over 6 feet tall, rich.. This is the checklist of what a woman may look for: High integrity, intelligent, kind, good communicator, emotionally available…11. A girl plays games. A woman doesn’t. As a shy person I hate first dates. Anything can be fun if the company is good though. Just don't make me feel like I am at a job interview, that sucks. If you break out a list of the ***things you want in a woman I will get up and leave for real.