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Candace, 40
United States, Virginia, Petersburg

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About Me

"For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone." ~Audrey HepburnWant to feel butterflies again...I am looking to meet friends first and if a relationship develops even better. I believe a relationship is like many things and you get out of it, what you're willing to put into it. We reap what we sow... Without proper care and feeding, failure is inevitable. I am very calm, easy going and laid back. I get along well with just about everyone. I'm the mother of two, wonderful sons. They live with their father but spend holidays and part of the summer with me. I have always had a soft spot in my heart for bad boys but only from an image perspective. He must be successful in his chosen career, responsible, and open to a committed relationship if it reaches that point. I am not interested in hooking up or flings. I'm serious about finding someone charming, fun, witty, with a great sense of humor to share life with. If you aren't on the same page, keep looking... & Good luck to you. :) I enjoy going places and trying new things. Life is too short to waste time not living it. I enjoy reading, traveling, cooking, dining out, live music, going to the beach, walks in the park and spending time outdoors when the weather is nice. I like to have fun, period and that is more about who you are with than what you're doing usually. :) Aspirations: like to own/ride a Harley & Ha!Thank you for taking time to read my profile if you are interested in getting to know me.... Please let me know. If my profile offends you then you don't get me at all.., it says more about my sense of humor than anything. ;) p.s. I'm kind of a stickler for spelling and grammar. If you need an editor, I'm your woman. Ha. If you can't spell your profession, same thing... I know spell check doesn't catch it if you spell manager m-a-n-g-e-r so check it twice! :) Manger is what baby Jesus slept in. I know, I'm hardcore, right? Ha. My mom says don't correct people, it's rude & they hate it but I just can't help myself... These things jump off the page and scream at me. I corrected my English teacher in college! p.s.s. if you have shirt off, bathroom pics... It could be a deal breaker. Definitely don't want to see certain things in the background. Ha. If you're showing off tattoos or muscles... I'm not impressed... I'm more impressed with what you have to say, how well you entertain me, & whether you can make me laugh, keep me laughing and are willing to do what it takes to make me happy. If you are the one, no other woman will love you more or treat you better than I will. That is a promise... p.s.s.s. if you are discussing what you and others did or are doing or creating a caption for a pic of you and others... Here's the thing about whether it's I or me... Forget about the others and say the sentence without them. (i.e. This is a picture of my sons and I. Is this grammatically correct? NO! Why? ...because without them in the picture... This is a picture of me. NOT - "This is a picture of I.") If you totally get what I'm saying and think I'm an angel for it... You could be the one! Ha. One last tip, I before E except after C and in words like sleigh, weigh, height, freight... See the pattern here? "eigh." Don't get all defensive and feel the urge to curse me out in a message that contains all kind of errors either. If you don't see the humor in this or get it then we would not hit it off... I'm sorry. I won't really check all your messages. Haha. Don't be surprised if I make mistakes sometimes too... I'm human. ;) I'm speaking in generalities here. ;) I'm open to anything really... Coffee, drinks, walk in the park or downtown. It would be nice if it is a relatively quiet place so we can chat. I do enjoy being taken out for dinner! Jack Fry's is my favorite restaurant but I also like trying new places too. Comedy clubs & live music are great too!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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