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United States, Illinois, Orland Park

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About Me

I am a divorced mom of three incredible sons. Two of which are surviving. My youngest has autism and is the most amazing being in this world. Through adversity in life, I have become not one in a million, but 100% one of a kind. I have many passions in life, including music (I play the bass guitar), writing, reading, being around my loved ones, animals, children...the list is really never ending. As for the genres in music that I enjoy, there are so many. I love heavy metal, which is what I am more likely to play, also. I love classic rock, punk, house, opera, classical, the blues, reggae, indie, some rap and r&b classic country. There really isn't much I can say I don't like. Being a musician all my life, my appreciation expanded with time. I am also a published poet who hopes to someday write a book. I love being outdoors. Camping, fishing, sleeping under the stars. The world is a most beautiful place and there is so much of it to see, I tend to have a hard time staying inside if I don't have to. Naturally, with that comes along my love of traveling. I was fortunate growing up and my parents took us children many places I couldn't imagine have never seeing. All my friends say I am a lover, a humanitarian. I believe in the law of attraction and live by it. I am an all out, spunky, funky, and super punky kind of girl. I live life to it's fullest with nothing but positive energy! No matter where I am, I am smiling and making sure those around me are too! Nothing but love and light to give, but so happy to give it! I'm not looking to just get laid...I can do that very easily if need be...I need and want something different. Not necessarily sure what that is, precisely, I just know what it isn't. Sorry, I don't settle for anything less than I desire. I hope I don't lose all hope here...waiting for someone to grab my attention and keep it! Be different! First date...that's funny. Or should I say, what is that? It has been so long, I honestly don't know anymore. I look for spontaneity and excitement. New things. I am a very high energy person all around. I love to be silly and have fun without any cares on what others may think. Yes, I love the typical movie and drinks....but I love different even more!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock British Chinese Korean Turkish Comedy War Western
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