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Leann, 36
United States, Illinois, Orland Park

Offline, last seen Mon, 12 Jan 2026 22:32:37

About Me

I am tired of boys who play games. I am ready for a man who can step up to the plate and handle a woman who has a career, a mind, and is straight up honest. I am hoping to find someone to date and hang out and at some point move into a relationship. I am at a stage in life where I am focusing on me and my future as my kids will be grown soon and out of the house. I am not opposed to dating someone with kids of any age. I started running last January and am signed up for my second 5K. I am always trying to find new things to try, whether it be a new hobby or restaurant. Any questions, just ask...just be prepared for an honest..sometimes sarcastic answer. Bring it on I am always ready for a challenge!!! ;)Disclaimer: 1) I am an educated woman and I want to be mentally stimulated. I need a person who can grab my attention and engage me in a conversation, so if the best thing you have to offer is a "hey sexy" or minimal effort...I doubt we will click. 2) I am flattered and there are many fine looking black men out there, but not for me..sorry . 3) I have curves..that by no means insinuates that I am fat or don't take care of myself..it means that I am not a stick figure. Either like it or not. I am happy with me. 4) If we are talking and you expect "fun pics" immediately..keep on looking. You won't get dirty pics, sexting, or *** from me. I think something entertaining. Maybe a nice dinner followed by listening to a band and maybe some dancing. Just relaxed fun. I am not really into movies on a date, since you can't talk and get to know one another. My goal on a first date would be to have a good time, and get to know about the other person. And if there is more than one date, I am not opposed to snuggling up on the couch and watching a good movie at home or a Saturday watching football and cheering on my DAWGS!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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