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Martina, 38
United States, Illinois, Orland Park

Offline, last seen Wed, 01 Jul 2026 04:38:11

About Me

I am a proud mother of 3 daughters and 1 son.I love kids! I was a paramedic firefighter. I am pretty independant type person, not looking for a guy to support me, i can take care of myself and my kids. Also not looking to support someone else, I believe in a ***relationship. You get what you give with me.I am the type of person who can be happy out with the gang or just as happy cuddled up on the couch with that special someone. looking for someone to have fun with and get to know if it turns into more great if not...oh well. I am very shy at times, but can be quite the flirt when I get to know you a lil! I listen to music more than watch TV. not big on politics. I like to try new things if I like it I will do it again. I love to meet people and make friends laugh. I am a huge fan of anyone in EMS or Firefighting as well as military and police. I am big on family. I am not a slut and will not tolerate being treated like one. I have a soft spot for the old fashioned guy with manners (opens the door, pulls out the chair...). Bad habits, I will tell ya right off I smoke cigs, I dont do drugs and wont have anything to do with anyone who does, but I drink occasionally and swear (sometimes alot lol!). I try to respond to all messages but if you get outta hand I will ***! Take the hint... not every woman wants to see your privates!!!! QUESTION!!! I have read tons of pages on here and almost all of them say close to the same things.. if so many men "love to be out doors" why are there so many sports channels? hmmmmmm..... first date...hmmmm... thats hard to say. i guess it depends on who it is and what they like to do, as well as where we would meet. I would definately try to make the most of it. why not right? I have to be honest.... I am very outta practice on the whole "dating" thing I havnt went out that much since the divorce.... so bare with me on that lol!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American German Mexican
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

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  • Andrea from Orland Park | Woman | 36 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am seriously looking for a relationship. If you are looking for something else, move on. If you don't believe in being honest, truthful, and be able to communicate, don't bother *** am a 36 yr old who is looking to be loved and to give love. I want a partner in crime who is also looking to having children. I enjoy a million things. I like going out as much as I do staying in. I am a sports fan. Huge football fan. I am a U of L fan and am very proud of it. I am hoping to find someone who can show me what I am missing out on.I have a caring heart but I can be blunt. I am picky on what I want from a partner.I wish to talk more but you must *** have learned so far from the guys on here. Guys don't want games. They are the ones who want to play the games. They get the girl to like them and string them along as a plan b. I DO NOT WANT TO BE A PLAN B. Also I have learned guys honesty is different from a mature woman's honesty.Some guys like to post pictures of them 5 yrs ago when they thought they looked good. If you don't look like your picture, no second meeting for you. Men don't like to answer tough questions. If you can't be honest and tell the truth, red flag. That is probably why you are divorced or single. ***If I do not ***, that means you are not what I looking for. I don't call the first meeting a date. Its a meeting to see if we would be a good match. If we are a good match, first date would be set.A meeting at a coffee shop or some where public where we can talk and get to know each other.

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