SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Violet
Online
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
I won't tell you just what you want to hear & I need you to listen to what I have to say... I am a 40 year old woman with more to offer than any man I have ever known deserves or could handle... I could ramble about many things, but we both know that is the last thing a man wants to listen to... I have been through the fires of hell and don't even smell like smoke (few will understand my point) but, let me get to it...I am creative by nature, art is in my blood, I love music of ALL kinds. I went to college for marketing & graphic arts, in which I did for 20+years.... then in a twist of fate or divine destiny... I am now a registered medical assistant working with cancer patients after losing my mom to brain cancer a year+ ago...life has turned a ***and I am truly in a new beginning in many ways. Consistency tells a lot about character... I am funny and outgoing but, deep... I love to cook, it is therapy for me.. I LOVE IT... I am not interested in booty calls, being your drinking buddy or waiting for you to text me. My faith and my God is why I am still here, I am a free spirit, a writer, a romantic by heart and I tend to say too much.... so for now, I will leave it at that and build on a good thing as we go along.... by the encouragement of a friend I am here again and being completely open and honest to possibility...... I am not interested in passing your time or you wasting mine. I think it is best to stick to locals, I don't think I have it in me for another long distance anything. SOOOOOO Start diggin'.... OK, so I guess I will add some thoughts... because if you have come this far, I will assume you wanna know more. I am the whole package, come on now, seriously... if we don't think that about ourselves who will!? I have been on here a few times before and SWORE I wouldn't be back. I cannot be described in one word. There is nothing average about me.... and who doesn't have a few extra pounds or more to lose if honest, unless you are TRULY athletic, which most who say they are on here, are NOT (I know I have met them). I am a beautiful women with a lot to offer and am still a work in progress... I describe myself physically as "curvalicious" and have never had a man complain about my figure. I am NOT a Barbie doll and you will prolly never see me in a dress and heels unless someone has died, and I will prolly still be in pants.I prefer to crank up some good tunes, put on my comfies, open a bottle of wine or make some drinks and cook you the best meal you have ever had vs. going out to eat. I am very laid back compared to most women I know. I am open and honest, loving and sincere. There truly is nothing fake about me. If you ask people who know me what I am like, they would describe me as faithful, funny, sarcastic, outgoing, inviting, trustworthy, kind, reliable, shocking, passionate, sexy and I have a giving heart. I don't care if it sounds too good to be true, it is the truth.... I don't have to try and sell myself... I am just being open.... More to come...I have learned the hard way that time is precious, I do not give it to just anyone because it is a gift and you cannot get it back. I am not a dater, much less a serial dater. I will not talk to nor go out with a dozen guys at once. Not being a dater has made being on a dating sight difficult, lol. BUT, I work full time and have my daughter half the time and I don't get out much anymore. There is nothing about the bar scene I miss, except live music. ... I want more than shallow, surface relationship, I need substance. I need physical attraction just like anyone, I am not disregarding it.... it is vital. BUT, I want what I have never had. My longest relationship was 18 years and it did not work, that is almost half my life... I will not give away my heart so easily now, but when I do... that man will be blessed.
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Kaye
Offline
Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
Hi out there, I am down to earth woman looking to meet new people, maybe even the one! I enjoy outdoors, going new places and exploring, movie, music. I also enjoy spending time at home. I am not looking for drama or head games. I am open and honest and looking for the same. I love to laugh and joke around. If you would like to know more just ask.
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Leann
Online
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I am tired of boys who play games. I am ready for a man who can step up to the plate and handle a woman who has a career, a mind, and is straight up honest. I am hoping to find someone to date and hang out and at some point move into a relationship. I am at a stage in life where I am focusing on me and my future as my kids will be grown soon and out of the house. I am not opposed to dating someone with kids of any age. I started running last January and am signed up for my second 5K. I am always trying to find new things to try, whether it be a new hobby or restaurant. Any questions, just ask...just be prepared for an honest..sometimes sarcastic answer. Bring it on I am always ready for a challenge!!! ;)Disclaimer: 1) I am an educated woman and I want to be mentally stimulated. I need a person who can grab my attention and engage me in a conversation, so if the best thing you have to offer is a "hey sexy" or minimal effort...I doubt we will click. 2) I am flattered and there are many fine looking black men out there, but not for me..sorry . 3) I have curves..that by no means insinuates that I am fat or don't take care of myself..it means that I am not a stick figure. Either like it or not. I am happy with me. 4) If we are talking and you expect "fun pics" immediately..keep on looking. You won't get dirty pics, sexting, or *** from me. I think something entertaining. Maybe a nice dinner followed by listening to a band and maybe some dancing. Just relaxed fun. I am not really into movies on a date, since you can't talk and get to know one another. My goal on a first date would be to have a good time, and get to know about the other person. And if there is more than one date, I am not opposed to snuggling up on the couch and watching a good movie at home or a Saturday watching football and cheering on my DAWGS!!