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Trina, 28

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About Me

I ask for you to step out of your bubble of standard pick up lines and expectations. Use your mind, your imagination and intrigue me. I seek intellectual stimulation, creative inspiration and positive company. I'm here, there and fairly busy working on building my career & going to school. I intend to be single for quite a while. Intrigue is stimulated in my mind by a particular kind of man. In time I will be open to pursuing something serious with a man who has taken the time to be my friend first. I know what I want, I am not a spoiled brat or high maintenance. I'm a complex individual who is a dreamer with a practical side, easy going yet feisty, adventurer & hermit, *** a last minute multi tasking procrastinator who closes the deal. When I have deeper interest in a man I must know he is a good communicator, stable, supportive and successful in his own life & takes time to find interest in my life. I am a single mother of one and have never been married. I do not have drama attached to my family life and I ask that the same is for you if you have children. There is daily drama in most people's lives but I prefer to live in peace rather than war to set a good example for my daughter. I'm not interested in childish games, the unemployed, no car, bored, horny, shallow or easy guys. We all have challenges in life. I am seeking someone who is grounded from those experiences, not tormented by them. I want to involve healthy influences in my life. I spent the last 5 years getting in shape and changing my lifestyle and prefer to stay active. Stagnancy IS death! I don't have a mainstream "ideal" body due to past history of being over weight. I am confident in my skin & my curves despite what some might consider Imperfections. Narrow minded fools are not worth my time if they are looking at life in square terms. Preferences are natural, don't waste my time & I promise to not waste yours. I take pride in the lessons I've learned. I will admit I'm more attracted to taller men but I've been with all shapes and sizes. I would like to chat enough to get a sense of whom I might meet. I would like to date someone who can carry on a conversation, intrigue me and give me a sense of curiosity that does not dissipate too quickly. I am old school and would like to go on a date with a man who is going to respect me as a lady and treat me to a nice evening. I can honestly say I have rarely been spoiled by a man. I must say I'm starting to believe those kind of men exist. I have standards but that does not mean I'm a stick in the mud, nor is there a stick up my butt. I've experienced a variety of relationships and I'm not looking to fill a void. I want more than the mundane so I'm open to your suggestions. Ask me questions, tell me about your passions or hide in the shadows and never know. I could spoil the fun and tell you more about me but I'd rather be pursued with imagination, genuine interest and good taste. Plus wheres the challenge for you if I tell you everything? I prefer to remain some what of a mystery. That is until "you" are able to soften this stone heart of mine lol. This Piscean lady is a good catch ;). Possibly a mellow dive bar where we can chat & play pool? A nice walk through the city or by the river. The art walk, some good wine & dinner would be ideal as well. Intrigue me, I want to be surprised & date someone I can relate to in life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nola

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    If you are on this site looking for a one night stand.. you will not find it here..move along. Remember, Independent ladies can take care of themselves. That doesn't mean I don't want big strong man arms to hold me. I have a lot to offer a man. My character is Genuine. I have a deeper understanding of loyalty. I'm sensitive to your needs, only if you respect mine.*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*One thing I need from you is attention. Meaning, a woman needs to see you are genuine with her. There is no way to tell if you don't try. Obviously not in a clingy way. Just a happy medium. If we become close I need you to remind me that I'm the one you want. Otherwise, the lack of interest screams that I'm not worth your time. With that said, I must be honest about another side of me. When triggered.. My Darkside. Most of us have one. Most are unaware.I imagine my Darkside as a Villain. Vixen I would call Her. I know Her. I hate Her.She knows when to make Her move. She thrives on my weakness and just takes over. The power she possesses is a venomous mouth. She can Spit Fire. The nature of the Burn depends on the how severe the threat. A threat that comes too close to her heart with foul intentions. She overpowers me once in a good while. Like I said.. when triggered. The other side. The Light side. She is Krista. Dark Hair. Fair skin. Light blue eyes. Full lips. Voluptuous body. Strong body. Soft skin. Natural Beauty. Healer. Singer. Honest. Soulful. Spiritual. Empathetic. Fair. Wise. Graceful. Clumsy. Submissive. Whitty. Stubborn.Insecure. Funny. Passionate. Sexy. Romantic. Lover. I feel like I am a little light in this dark world we have created for ourselves. This is the Healer side of me. I know what it is to feel pain. I know as humans we all feel it. I have this really cool gift (super power) of Empathy. Not kidding. I take it seriously. I like my power. It draws people to me. I know this because I'm observant. I love to be a moment of comfort. A little flicker of hope. I know this creates trust. Trust is a valuable bond to have in a true genuine relationship. With anyone. I am so kind to "strangers" or just other people in my path in life. I never want to make anyone feel lesser than myself. I never go out of my way to hurt someone.. Unjustified anyway. I do my best to not make fun or belittle. I am human so I'm not perfect. But I acknowledge my shortcomings right away.. So, I may grow stronger in my gifts of the greater good. I refuse to walk through life knowing I wasn't Righteous in all I do when it comes to connections in my life. Righteousness, A power that I have within me. A power I am always trying to master. I have to fail in order to know when to use it more naturally. I believe in raw honesty delivered with care mixed in with a little passion. Constructive criticism. I'm looking for something serious. I don't believe in establishing an intimate connection with someone to not take it seriously. What I'm just trying to say is..I put my 100% whole-hearted self into a man. I don't believe in using someone's heart as a chess piece. I am delicate. Delicate things need to be handled with care. Most men seem to have callused hands. I feel I may be damaged because I still have yet to know what its like to be treated right by a man. I trusted the wrong men. I gave my heart to insensitive hands. Trust must be established and consistent. All I'm asking for, is someone with that general mindset. Consistency is so important. What good is man when a man is no good for his word? Don't show me you half ass anything when it comes to me. I am worth the effort and I deserve your respect..Im not saying any of this in a ****y tone. Just with passion. I just want a man to give my love to. I want to run my fingers through your hair. I want to cozy up in the nook of your shoulder and wrap my legs around yours. I want a man that knows how to love me right. How can I love you right if the opportunity for greatness is destroyed? Doesnt matter. I only expect your full attention.

  • Patti

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    I am a hard working single parent who loves trying new things! I like to camp, fish and most of all spend time with my son. I enjoy hanging in and watching movies but also having nights out. When its football season I will definitely be trying to keep up with the college football. Go huskies!!! I enjoy when a guy puts thought into a date and makes it fun and interesting.

  • Rochelle

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    "I am not a perfect girl. My hair doesn't always stay in place, I can be clumsy, I sometimes fight, and maybe some days nothing goes right. But when I think about it and I take a step back I remember how amazing my life truly is and that maybe, just maybe, I like being imperfect"I love this quote because where I am at this point in my life I am happy being "imperfect" and am absolutely not ashamed or embarrassed to say it. ***was certainly an interesting year and I must say so far ***has been amazing and I can't wait to see what is ahead for me, I truly believe this is my year!! Let the adventures begin!As cliche as it sounds, I'm truly just living in the moment and trying to living life to its fullest.Work has me crazy busy lately, but I always make sure to not waste any free moment I have whether its attending sporting events, enjoying anything outdoors, spending time with my wonderful family and friends, shopping ,whatever it may be I always make sure I'm keeping myself active.Tv-I'm much more a movie person but the shows I do like are big bang theory, SOA, scandal, amazing race, suits, and white collar. Never watch them on their actual nights, thank goodness for TiVo! HahaMusic-In my family music has always been important so it's always had a strong impact in my life. I'm not the biggest fan of screamo kind music, but really everything else I love. I just love music and the power it can have over you.Food- liver and onions are definitely on the hated list haha but everything else I'm willing to try, but def my favs are sushi, really good steak, cheeseburgers, Mexican, BBQ and Italian I'm a laid back go with the flow type of lady so to me anything sounds great to me as long as we're getting to know each other and seeing if there's any kind of connection

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