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Nola, 28

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About Me

If you are on this site looking for a one night stand.. you will not find it here..move along. Remember, Independent ladies can take care of themselves. That doesn't mean I don't want big strong man arms to hold me. I have a lot to offer a man. My character is Genuine. I have a deeper understanding of loyalty. I'm sensitive to your needs, only if you respect mine.*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*One thing I need from you is attention. Meaning, a woman needs to see you are genuine with her. There is no way to tell if you don't try. Obviously not in a clingy way. Just a happy medium. If we become close I need you to remind me that I'm the one you want. Otherwise, the lack of interest screams that I'm not worth your time. With that said, I must be honest about another side of me. When triggered.. My Darkside. Most of us have one. Most are unaware.I imagine my Darkside as a Villain. Vixen I would call Her. I know Her. I hate Her.She knows when to make Her move. She thrives on my weakness and just takes over. The power she possesses is a venomous mouth. She can Spit Fire. The nature of the Burn depends on the how severe the threat. A threat that comes too close to her heart with foul intentions. She overpowers me once in a good while. Like I said.. when triggered. The other side. The Light side. She is Krista. Dark Hair. Fair skin. Light blue eyes. Full lips. Voluptuous body. Strong body. Soft skin. Natural Beauty. Healer. Singer. Honest. Soulful. Spiritual. Empathetic. Fair. Wise. Graceful. Clumsy. Submissive. Whitty. Stubborn.Insecure. Funny. Passionate. Sexy. Romantic. Lover. I feel like I am a little light in this dark world we have created for ourselves. This is the Healer side of me. I know what it is to feel pain. I know as humans we all feel it. I have this really cool gift (super power) of Empathy. Not kidding. I take it seriously. I like my power. It draws people to me. I know this because I'm observant. I love to be a moment of comfort. A little flicker of hope. I know this creates trust. Trust is a valuable bond to have in a true genuine relationship. With anyone. I am so kind to "strangers" or just other people in my path in life. I never want to make anyone feel lesser than myself. I never go out of my way to hurt someone.. Unjustified anyway. I do my best to not make fun or belittle. I am human so I'm not perfect. But I acknowledge my shortcomings right away.. So, I may grow stronger in my gifts of the greater good. I refuse to walk through life knowing I wasn't Righteous in all I do when it comes to connections in my life. Righteousness, A power that I have within me. A power I am always trying to master. I have to fail in order to know when to use it more naturally. I believe in raw honesty delivered with care mixed in with a little passion. Constructive criticism. I'm looking for something serious. I don't believe in establishing an intimate connection with someone to not take it seriously. What I'm just trying to say is..I put my 100% whole-hearted self into a man. I don't believe in using someone's heart as a chess piece. I am delicate. Delicate things need to be handled with care. Most men seem to have callused hands. I feel I may be damaged because I still have yet to know what its like to be treated right by a man. I trusted the wrong men. I gave my heart to insensitive hands. Trust must be established and consistent. All I'm asking for, is someone with that general mindset. Consistency is so important. What good is man when a man is no good for his word? Don't show me you half ass anything when it comes to me. I am worth the effort and I deserve your respect..Im not saying any of this in a ****y tone. Just with passion. I just want a man to give my love to. I want to run my fingers through your hair. I want to cozy up in the nook of your shoulder and wrap my legs around yours. I want a man that knows how to love me right. How can I love you right if the opportunity for greatness is destroyed? Doesnt matter. I only expect your full attention.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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