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Martha, 32
United States, Minnesota, Burnsville

Offline, last seen Sat, 28 Feb 2026 10:02:25

About Me

Love my family. Love art and unique things or places. Adventurous & I enjoy trying new things, new foods, and seeing or going to new places:) love the water, outdoors, the beach, rafting, riding four wheelers, listening to music, drawing and reading... Enjoy meeting new people and having fun. I've had two long relationships for the most part in the past. I would say I wasted my time with them because of all that i put up with. But i guess they were learning experiences. I learned what I really do want in someone and how I do and do not want to be treated. Being with someone and unhappy and mistreated is just not worth it. I'd rather be single then in a relationship like that. Have a little bit of old fashioned attitude also I guess.... I like people who are mature, caring, respectful, honest, affectionate, loving, thoughtful & a sense of humor is always a plus:) I love to have fun and have a good time. I'm playful at times but I can also be very serious. So, i like someone who also is not just all fun and games. Intelligence is attractive to me as well. :) I dislike rude, pushy, controlling, shadiness, overly loud and/or obnoxious people... being lied to and drama. Let me make part if that clear again.... I can not stand SHADY people or LIARS... Just to be very clear.. If your that type, don't waste my time. Pushy and controlling people annoy me. Like when someone acts like I'm snobby or stuck up if I don't answer "in their given time". Used to date a guy like that and he was overly controlling & insecure! It became a stalker type situation literally.... Probably why I am hesitant about relationships a little lol... Besides that I am the total opposite of a stuck up or egotistical person. I don't like being around people that are full of theirselves. We are all human and no one is perfect :) I've been single for a little while now but in the past I've always been the one to try or give. I tend to be on the shy side until I actually feel comfortable around someone. If anything maybe a little big hearted at times. I do have kids like I said in the questions on here so of course Im busy at times. They have and will always come first:) I just moved back to the area so I don't really know a lot of people here yet.....On *** I'm open to & enjoy many different things

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Jazz Latin Drawing / Painting British German Greek South American Outdoor Hobbies Watching Sports
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