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Alfreda, 35
United States, New Jersey, Lakewood

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About Me

My friends would say that I don't have any trouble getting attention from guys, but the truth is it's rare that I meet the type of guy that I really want to be with. A "normal", well-mannered, outdoorsy man that thinks and loves with his heart and can hold an intelligent conversation long enough to know if I'm paying attention. (that's a long time) With that being said, I'm an attractive, fun woman with a great sense of humor and an even bigger heart. I love being outdoors with my dog, physical activities such as running and cycling, cooking, and reading by the fire with a great bottle of wine. I am working on my own personal bucket list that is pages long. Maybe you can help me scratch some of these off my list. Currently I am working towards my Master's and am employed full time. It took me a long time to get here, but not only do I know myself, I am beyond comfortable in my own skin. I expect the same. Well.... I also expect that you have a job that you enjoy, a sense of humor, not to sweat the small stuff and most importantly you should know the meaning of chivalry. With this you can know that I have a heart of gold and if you are lucky enough to find yourself in it, I will snuggle the sh*t out of you. ( amongst other things)If you like cute, petite and athletic, you will love me! Anywhere where you can make me laugh, as I'm sure I'll do the same.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Greek Middle Eastern Drama Martial Arts Music Volleyball
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I consider myself laid back, happy, and someone who can be sarcastic and humorous, but serious when I need to be. I like to play sports and be active, but I also love hanging out, relaxing, and watching tv. but more often like to go to a more low key place closer to home and enjoy a couple beers. I'm pretty open though - I like to do a little of everything.I have my own place, a steady job, car, and a good group of friends/close family. Looking for someone similar who can make me laugh and wants to have a good time. I want someone who can be a best friend and someone who wants to be around me/treat me right. While I'm open to just dating, I want to eventually find someone to be with long term. If you're interested, send me a message - I'm not going to go through all the 'wants to meet you' or 'viewed you' people lol sorry. Thanks! :) I am up for different activities for a date, but for a first date I guess I enjoy just meeting someone for dinner/drinks, and getting to know them first. Once I do, I like doing stuff like going to the movies, going for a drive somewhere random, doing something outdoors, going to a good bruins/celtics/red sox game and having a cold beer, going bowling.

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