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Melody, 35
United States, New Jersey, Lakewood

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About Me

I am an open- minded, free spirited, spontaneous, creative, passionate, inquisitive, intense, happy, and fun individual that seeks my perfect match. I am not exactly sure what that person would consist of specifically. I do seek a very strong and emotionally stable man... a must, I can be strong willed at times. I will banter with you and I can hold my own pretty well. A lover of all people (the more odd, the more my interest is peaked and I want to unwrap everyone's unique story like it's Christmas everyday). A man that is not afraid to be blunt with me at times and can handle criticism. Passionate, attractive, ambitious, not needy, values family, loyal, ability to engage in communication and values the importance of doing so (is a big one with me), loves the outdoors, and the ability to 'make' fun anywhere! I have more energy than most people, I'm recognizing, so active, energetic bouncing from one activity to another is a requirement. I am constantly learning and thinking way outside the box so definitely open-minded and patient!! I live for new experiences, exploring and pushing my boundaries so another fearless soul. I guess I want it all and than some! I would love to find someone that is successful or knowledgeable about business, I love conceptualizing niche markets and finding someone to support and/or be involved in business, and/or mentoring me to bring my ideas to fruition could quite possibly lead to building an empire together. I enjoy letting my mind race with a bottle of cab and another stimulating, deep and passionate thinker.***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** Morning breakfast on the water definitely Mimosas getting to know one another, if all goes well something active like learning a new sport or playing tennis, maybe the beach! Just having fun and enjoying every second.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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