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Cornelia, 31
United States, New Jersey, Lakewood

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About Me

Hi! Trying to find someone to date sure is different as an adult, isn't it? I imagine it was even harder before the Internet. Maybe that is why divorce was not as common twenty years ago. You just stayed unhappy because where would you meet someone else being a divorcee with children? Ha! Ha! I have a 17 year old boy and a 3 year old girl that I fostered and then adopted, who make my world go 'round. Unfortunately, that leaves me little time to date, but I am sure ready to find someone to spend my life with! I am sarcastic, honest, kind, logical, non-religious, and have good morals. I do not smoke or do any drugs (never have), but I do drink occasionally. . I joined Weight Watchers in ***and have lost a lot of weight. I still have a long way to go, so I need someone who can be supportive while I continue that journey. I own my own home, have a nice car, have my own medical/dental coverage, and support myself and children comfortably. Obviously, I am not looking for someone to help take care of me but to make this journey on Earth fun. I want to have that relationship where you look forward to coming home to see each other, where we are walking in Wal- I am looking for someone who is 30ish to 40ish years old, who truly likes bigger women, who does not smoke or do drugs, has all the typical things an adult should have, likes to joke, and can write and speak well. Being a parent who is actively involved in their child's life is always a plus! A man who has hair on his chest, a light scruffy beard, and can fix things with his hands, is a huge turn on. Of course, those are not prerequisites. I love children and would love any future children added to my life but I do not want to have anymore children myself. I do know exactly what I am looking for in a relationship, so if you are interested, let us see if it can be with you! I love going anywhere and doing anything! Dinner, a movie and dessert, drinks at a bar while playing darts and shuffle board, bowling, miniature golf, swimming, board games with friends, feeding ducks at a pond, cooking dinner at home, renting a movie, the zoo, live music, etc. The list is endless when you are doing something with someone you enjoy spending time with!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Felecia from Lakewood | Woman | 35 years old | Aries
    Felecia

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Dear PAST: Thank you for the lessonsDear FUTURE: I'm readyA little bit about me......... I often find myself daydreaming about the love of my life, effortlessly trying to get my attention by posting pictures of himself standing in front of a mirror shirtless and/or in his underwear. That followed by the most romantic, breathtaking first message ever, asking me what size my chest size is. What more could a woman ask for!?! How I could possibly remain single with options like that just baffles me. The BEST PART is how many messages I STILL GET asking the same question from all the Bobbleheads who obviously DIDN'T read "at least this part" of my profile LMAO! If you just so happen to fall into that "rather large group", you can't imagine how anxious I'll be when it comes time to never meet you ; )There are no doubt "Plenty Of Fish", clueless as to why they're still swimming in circles! Well I'm not looking for just any fish, I'm holding for the right Shark!A little more about me......... SURPRISE...SURPRISE...I PAY MY OWN BILLS! I'M NOT VAIN!!......Mirrors just happen to REALLY like me, so who am I to walk by one and deny it such a ravishing reflection!! That would make me stuck-up...geeez ; ) lol "To KNOW ME is to love me"I'm a smart, beautiful independent woman and I love doing things that challenge me. I have a beautiful daughter ***and a handsome little man ***who are my world. Being a mom has been both my biggest challenge AND accomplishment. I'm not happy unless I'm learning something New for myself or to teach others. All I can say is if my motivation, drive and ambition make you dizzy, grab some dramamine or the door knob, whichever you choose. I happen to be proud of the woman I am.As I get older I realize how important it is to just be happy no matter what and its just as important to receive love as it is to give love.There is absolutely "nothing" more attractive than man who knows how to treat a woman. All it requires is respect! At least thats what this woman requires! The problem is the vast majority are completely clueless in that area and unfortunately I'm not offering any on the job training.I'm worth it, the question is are you!Oh! One more thing, I almost forgot! Does anyone happen to know when the NEW "pick up lines" are supposed to come out? I've been hearing the same lame sh*t since grade school. They come out with a New video game for you damn men weekly but a girl gotta wait 20 years for a New line.....and you wonder why you get more play from the games!!IN CLOSING, I would like to say this to all the men. Patience is "waiting". It's having what it takes to keep going even when the going is hard and slow. The best things in life don't just fall in your lap and a GOOD WOMAN won't either. If your not willing to put in the TIME or the WORK....YOU DON'T DESERVE ME!!!;ME" they'll get as a result is worth it. Waiting for my soldier ; ) I have a good time no matter what i'm doing as long as my company doesnt leave his self control at home. A little friendly advice would be to actually look at my face if you plan on having a conversation as "my chest" won't respond!Other than that...Just make me laugh ;D

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  • Yvette from Lakewood | Woman | 35 years old | Virgo
    Yvette

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

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  • Loretta from Lakewood | Woman | 34 years old | Aries
    Loretta

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    So I'm a single mother of a 4 year old and work 2nd shift I've been single for almost 3yrs now, and yes I have had my fun on this site ;) I am ready to start dating again or at least find a friend (not a one night stand ). It would be niace to find someone to spend time with weather it's going out, or staying in an watching a movie, or even walking around aimlessly at Meijers at 3am ;). So if there's anything else you would like to know just message me and I will tell you ;)

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