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Cornelia, 31
United States, New Jersey, Lakewood

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About Me

Hi! Trying to find someone to date sure is different as an adult, isn't it? I imagine it was even harder before the Internet. Maybe that is why divorce was not as common twenty years ago. You just stayed unhappy because where would you meet someone else being a divorcee with children? Ha! Ha! I have a 17 year old boy and a 3 year old girl that I fostered and then adopted, who make my world go 'round. Unfortunately, that leaves me little time to date, but I am sure ready to find someone to spend my life with! I am sarcastic, honest, kind, logical, non-religious, and have good morals. I do not smoke or do any drugs (never have), but I do drink occasionally. . I joined Weight Watchers in ***and have lost a lot of weight. I still have a long way to go, so I need someone who can be supportive while I continue that journey. I own my own home, have a nice car, have my own medical/dental coverage, and support myself and children comfortably. Obviously, I am not looking for someone to help take care of me but to make this journey on Earth fun. I want to have that relationship where you look forward to coming home to see each other, where we are walking in Wal- I am looking for someone who is 30ish to 40ish years old, who truly likes bigger women, who does not smoke or do drugs, has all the typical things an adult should have, likes to joke, and can write and speak well. Being a parent who is actively involved in their child's life is always a plus! A man who has hair on his chest, a light scruffy beard, and can fix things with his hands, is a huge turn on. Of course, those are not prerequisites. I love children and would love any future children added to my life but I do not want to have anymore children myself. I do know exactly what I am looking for in a relationship, so if you are interested, let us see if it can be with you! I love going anywhere and doing anything! Dinner, a movie and dessert, drinks at a bar while playing darts and shuffle board, bowling, miniature golf, swimming, board games with friends, feeding ducks at a pond, cooking dinner at home, renting a movie, the zoo, live music, etc. The list is endless when you are doing something with someone you enjoy spending time with!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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