Tommie, 33
Offline, last seen Thu, 27 Nov 2025 12:22:01
About Me
I must say it is utterly strange to write about myself, but since I'm here, I might as well make it count.I am a kind person of great goals who sees success as a multi-dimensional thing other than just financial success, as one can be rich and detest their job/partner/life (therefore no real success). I was asked to talk about goals here and I think with goals come success: financially, emotionally and in depth of thought.I am not sure of what makes me unique, haven't met every female on the planet yet (kidding). I think I can be witty, funny (I laugh at myself often), well-read, I have a lot of energy and tend to think I am good at channeling it into something productive or semi-productive.I have a broad taste in music, food and movies and don't seem to have a favourite anything. At least I can say not yet. Being very active and feeding my body with what's best for me nutritionally is part of my being, not just looks, as both food and exercise can affect my life greatly. I think there's a big difference between doing things for appearance and doing things simply because it's a basic need, like breathing and bathing. I enjoy Crossfit and yoga.Strangely enough, I am somewhat of a kamikaze foodie whom enjoys a good meal at a hole-in-a-wall type of place or that Sunday brunch Angus burger at Bonefish grill. Go figure?Life is a hobby I cherish and I do not sweat the small stuff. I am generally happy and positive so I tend to enjoy the company of like-minded people. I'm not very fond of Johnny Rainclouds (people that walk around with a dark cloud hanging over their heads). I find self-absorption to be a trait of highly insecure people... a lot of energy is spent in managing their image and what people would think of them, therefore forgetting to really see others, be in the moment. I'm not judging, just intending to establishing that I would not get along with those types.Sometimes there's just no chemistry. Just as I don't expect everyone to like me, I reserve the right of not enjoying everyone's company.On that note, I know what qualities I have to offer (I'm warm, passionate, caring and adventurous) and I am also aware of what qualities I look for on a partner. Not a checklist thing, I just have a good notion of what would work for me. Although I am an independent individual (I was the only one in my mum's womb when I was there), I like a man who knows his role in making a woman feel safe, secure, loved and cared for. I cannot even stand emasculating scenarios on TV.Oh, very important: please do not *** monosyllabic *** "hey", "hi" , etc). I tend to think those pages are empty... As I don't appreciate rudeness, I would like you to know that I make sure to reply to the *** receive even when a little delayed. You took the time to write, I take the time to reply.Thank goodness that hasn't happened yet. I've only gotten 2 on my inbox :)Likes:Holding handsKissingWearing your jacket when we are outside in the cold or inside in the cold.-awareness Selfishness People who don't like animalsLiars and mind gamesInability to communicate needs Hmmm....First meet is usually a bar or coffee shop. I rarely drink (maybe twice a year) but it wouldn't be true to say that I never do- must clarify I'm not following any dozen steps.
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
man
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Relationship
Never married
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Have kids
No
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Wants kids
Someday
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Other
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Body type
Athletic
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Height
5'8"
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Eye color
Green
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Smoke
No
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Drink
No
INTERESTS
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