Total users: 60,469,728 Online users: 217,394
Patty, 34

Offline, last seen Fri, 19 Dec 2025 05:48:38

About Me

My friends describe my type of guy as "tall, skinny, kinda nerdy." My track record shows that I can't argue that. If you're "nerdy", I find that adorable! I am not at all into guys who spend COUNTLESS hours at the gym, though being fit is definitely a plus. I work out with a trainer 3 times a week and eat as clean as possible. Here are some of my likes/preferences:1. Tall! I'm quite tall myself and LOVE wearing high heels. I'd prefer feeling "small" next to my man. I don't enjoy feeling like an Amazon woman! 2. Dark hair. I'm not opposed to light hair, I just find that I'm drawn to darker hair.3. Do you wear suits? (bonus points!) Also, do you care what you look like? Great! Perhaps we'll be mistaken for Barbie and Ken when we're out! lol4. Twisted sense of humor. If you can keep me laughing, I will fall for you quicker! I love smartasses. Keep me on my toes!5. Thin. I'm drawn to thinner guys. You don't have to be super fit, or even fit at all. But bigger guys just aren't my thing.6. Goofy. I love seeing guys dressed in halloween costumes, having fun at football games, etc. in their profile pics. 7. Animal lover. I love it when I see a picture of a guy with his dog/cat. I will probably NOT respond if I see the following things in your pictures: (just trying to make this easy for you! please don't get offended! We all have our attractions and things that we are not attracted to)1. baseball cap on sideways. (I'm into white guys who know that they're white)2. "chin strap" and very manicured facial hair. I love scruff, but not beards. 3. Denim shorts. Seriously, you read that right. I no longer have the desire at this stage in life to teach a man to dress nicely.4. Fish. I have no problem with fishing and think it's a great hobby for a guy. But unless you're showing a random pic from a chartered salt water fishing excursion, I just don't think I would have anything in common with you if you're a fisherman. I have no desire to look at/smell/or be on a boat with fish and I prefer to date people with like interests/hobbies as me.5. Gold teeth. No further explanation necessary.6. Bald/Shaved head. Sorry, I like a full head of hair. 7. Motorcycles. Nothing wrong with them, but it's not a passion I have. So if a pic of your prized bike made the cut for your profile, it must be a big deal to you. It's not to me. I will NEVER go for a ride on one. You will NOT be the exception to change my mind on that. Not even if you're Johnny Depp.8. Crocs. nope. never.I am self-sufficient and do not NEED a man, though I do WANT one. I'm not your normal chick. Independent is the first word that comes to mind when I am asked to describe myself. I have lots of friends, I am not shy by any means, I'm not insecure, or needy. I am lots of fun and am always trying to make someone laugh. One of the biggest compliments I've ever received was from my old boss. He told one of my old co-workers that if he wanted to make sure that everyone was having fun, that he should invite me along.The reason that I'm on here is that most all of my friends are married and/or have children and that makes it hard to get out there and meet someone. And when I do get out, it's usually with one of my single guy friends, and that certainly doesn't help to meet a guy! So to sum it up, I would like to meet a guy between the ages of ***. And of course, MUST love animals.I am not yet decided whether or not I want children, but to be perfectly honest, I'm leaning towards not. So if your dream is a big family, I'm not your ideal girl. I do believe this could change when I meet the right guy though. Also, if you're a proud dad-that's fantastic. Your kids should be your main priority. You're probably not for me though as "I" would like to be someone's main love interest. Also, I'm really not interested in the baggage and drama that might come along with your baby mama.I hope that none of this came across as rude, it certainly was not my intention. In fact, I re-wrote this since I feel guilty *** from guys who just aren't my type. Attraction is a big deal for me. I've dated the guys who "make sense" and that gets old.... :) Something extremely low-key. A quiet wine or martini bar is my ideal place to meet someone. I'm not into dance clubs, but I could curl up on a couch with a glass of wine and talk for hours if I'm into you. So I'd like to go somewhere that allows me to hear you! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Cornelia

    Offline

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Ok so a little about me.... I have 2 kids who are my world I love them to pieces they are amazing!! I love to workout it's my stress relief :) I love to spend time with my friends, I enjoy going to the beach, hanging poolside, going to bars, clubs, movies. I'm very laid back & easy going. I'm told I have a great personality & sense of humor. I'm a smart ass so u can't be too sensitive ;) i love love love to laugh and do it as much as possible, life is too short to take it too seriouly. I'm a hopeless romantic & truly believe the right guy is out there for me. I love it here :) I like all kinds of music, I grew up dancing so if it moves me and makes me wanna get on my feet I'll listen to it.... House music is probably one of my favs especially to workout too.. I like to think I'm adventurous and will try anything once! Something casual, grab a coffe or a drink to feel eachother out & see if we have chemistry.

  • Angelia

    Online

    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    "Seduce my mind and you can have my body. Find my soul and I'm yours forever." -AnonymousHey there,did all this before and had an incredibly long description, so this time round will keep this short and sweet.I have a small circle of great friends and I'm very close to my family. No crazy ex's around.I'm lawfully single (legally separated), unattached, independent, emotionally available, down to earth and honest.I have a little boy 4 years of age who's the most wonderful addition to my life.Anything else you want to know, drop me a message.The qualities that I'm looking for in a guy?You must be educated, polite and with good manners.Looks are important but you must be happy with yourself and your life.You must look after yourself and have a good sense of humor - never at other people's expenses.A confident guy who goes for what he wants is a great turn on for women.Above all I would say the most important quality that I'm looking for is truth. There is no room in my life for insinceres. If we click via messages, then we meet (within a reasonable amont of time).I'm not looking for a penpal or long term message exchanging (besides, let's admit it, it's so time consuming !)Open to suggestions re. a first date, but would prefer something short & non committal like a drink.

  • Tammie

    Online

    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I'm too self deprecating to be honest here, so to find out more you'll need to ask...... Good food, good wine and good company.

Follow Us: