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United States, New York, Bay Shore

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About Me

I'm going to try a different approach. Here is a list of things I want to do with someone. If all of these sound like fun to you, and you're cool with the "Rules and Stuff" at the end, then message me!1) Go the State Fair. I haven't been to the fair to just walk around and eat and go on rides since I was in high school (do the math, that was a while ago). I want to eat some deep-fried Oreos, win a couple stuffed animals, and make myself sick on some rides.3) Go to a Cardinals game, tailgate with some fun people, and make myself hoarse from cheering so much.4) Explore new and fun places to hike and hope for some great views along the way (and maybe some cute photo opps as well).5) Order in dinner, cuddle up on the couch, and watch movies or play video games...).8) Try a bunch of new restaurants around town (not all in one day silly).9) Go horseback riding.***Road trip to Vegas (would you believe I've only been there once, and I ended up with a migraine and couldn't even go do anything!).***Road trip to Disneyland!!..hint hint.) RULES AND STUFF This list is in no particular order. I did put the stuff that would require overnight stays towards the end, cause let's face it, that's not going to be happening for a while.You have to be ok with the fact that I have kids. Don't worry, they won't be tagging along for any of this. My girls are very special, I won't introduce them to any guy unless I trust he'll be sticking around for a while. You have to earn the privilege to meet them, after all, I only have them 50% of the time, so if I'm sharing my time, it's gotta be for someone pretty awesome.Last but not least, you do have to possess some additional qualities, a few of which are listed below. I can't just be running off on these fun adventures with someone I don't get along with...Always honest, know how to treat a woman, great sense of humor, enjoy life, love music and movies, value family and friends, take pride in how you look, great at texting...I think that's a good start. :) I want to be taken out and shown a good time (and no, not like THAT lol). I really believe in a traditional first date - the guy asks the girl out, he plans the night. Something fun, where we can talk and get to know each other. You can never go wrong with a yummy dinner! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Chinese Greek Archery Rodeo
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