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Yolanda, 31
United States, New York, Bay Shore

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I try to participate in my life like an adult but I also like to play like a kid. I'm not perfect, but I like things to be organized and reorganized. I own stilettos and hiking boots. I have an IQ of ***but I can’t spell to save my life, always lose at Connect 4 and my handwriting looks like a kindergartners. I'm not a couch potato, but I love a good snuggle. I'm very affectionate and require reciprocation.’em. I love dressing up but my favorite outfit, hands down, is my PJ’s. I’m outgoing but selective with my loyalty. I’m Generous with hugs, flattery and tips but stingy with my string cheese, chocolate and blind trust. I am ambitious Monday through Friday but lazy Saturday and Sunday mornings, the afternoons are scheduled for spontaneity. ** IF the list below are all true statements for you as well, then I would love to hear from you.About me:1. I own a car ... I don't care what kind yours is2. I live alone. (Roommates are OK if you own your home.)3. I have a career I love and make 70k or more a year4. I like to be romantic on a regular basis5. I know that the buttons on my phone don't just text but also make outgoing calls6. I do and will continue to make traveling a priority for the rest of my life7. I have a need for trying new things and going new places8. I am a healthy eater but not a super picky eater, I like to trying new foods and restaurants 9. I have time to see you at least once a week10. I often engage in random acts of silliness and kindness11. I Love to cuddle12. I like to stay active outside, the majority of my activities do not take place under fluorescent lighting.13. I can handle a little sarcasm from time to time. Better to be a smart ass than a dumb ass.14. My ultimate goal from a relationship is marriage and children. I’m not saying tomorrow, but eventually it would be nice. 15. I do NOT smoke. (I'm allergic and asthmatic.) ** IF these were all true statements for you as well then I would love to hear from you.**If not, then that is ok, I'm just not a good match for you. Please don't waste OUR time by *** if we are not a match. Please don't send me angry mail if we are not a match, I'm not everyones cup of tea either and you don't see me freaking out about it. I'm at a place in my life where I know what I want and I'm willing to hold out for it. I’m old school I expect chivalry and courting and I like my man to wear the pants. So if you are waiting for me to initiate communication or plan things then you’ll be waiting awhile. Anything but coffee. I am attracted to the take charge type so as long as you take the time and initiative to plan the date all by yourself I'll love it. I roll with the punches and believe fun is something you bring with you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Internet Browsing American Indonesian Japanese Spanish Adventure Family & Kids Dirt Bike Racing
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I'm going to try a different approach. Here is a list of things I want to do with someone. If all of these sound like fun to you, and you're cool with the "Rules and Stuff" at the end, then message me!1) Go the State Fair. I haven't been to the fair to just walk around and eat and go on rides since I was in high school (do the math, that was a while ago). I want to eat some deep-fried Oreos, win a couple stuffed animals, and make myself sick on some rides.3) Go to a Cardinals game, tailgate with some fun people, and make myself hoarse from cheering so much.4) Explore new and fun places to hike and hope for some great views along the way (and maybe some cute photo opps as well).5) Order in dinner, cuddle up on the couch, and watch movies or play video games...).8) Try a bunch of new restaurants around town (not all in one day silly).9) Go horseback riding.***Road trip to Vegas (would you believe I've only been there once, and I ended up with a migraine and couldn't even go do anything!).***Road trip to Disneyland!!..hint hint.) RULES AND STUFF This list is in no particular order. I did put the stuff that would require overnight stays towards the end, cause let's face it, that's not going to be happening for a while.You have to be ok with the fact that I have kids. Don't worry, they won't be tagging along for any of this. My girls are very special, I won't introduce them to any guy unless I trust he'll be sticking around for a while. You have to earn the privilege to meet them, after all, I only have them 50% of the time, so if I'm sharing my time, it's gotta be for someone pretty awesome.Last but not least, you do have to possess some additional qualities, a few of which are listed below. I can't just be running off on these fun adventures with someone I don't get along with...Always honest, know how to treat a woman, great sense of humor, enjoy life, love music and movies, value family and friends, take pride in how you look, great at texting...I think that's a good start. :) I want to be taken out and shown a good time (and no, not like THAT lol). I really believe in a traditional first date - the guy asks the girl out, he plans the night. Something fun, where we can talk and get to know each other. You can never go wrong with a yummy dinner! :)

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I love to go camping, hiking and basically anything outdoors.-west. I love sushi. I love horses. I was raised Christian but appreciate wisdom in any form. ***I'm an Aesthetician and Laser Technician... a skin care specialist. I'm into photography and I enjoy taking pictures of people and nature. I am passionate and feel things deeply. I like to re-invent myself. I was a Licensed Massage Therapist for over 10 years. I like making quilts. I am unconventional but old-fashioned. I enjoyed skydiving and skysurfing for a few *** think way too much and I need a friend that can handle more than just small talk. I get bored easily but the right guy could captivate me without ever having to say a word. I'm into adventures, a little impulsive and need a guy who can handle being spontaneous. I am a Truth Seeker. I like living on the edge. I love to spoil my friends and family. Most of the time I am swimming in a sea of irony.***It's hard for me to say who my 'type' is because it's so much beyond just a description of what I think I need or what I think I might be attracted to. Basically it boils down to chemistry, which is something that lies beyond words. It would be great to find a guy with enough balls to be honest but care enough to give me any truth in a compassionate way. Let's compare our similarities and celebrate our differences. ***

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am the proud mother of a wonderful little boy and work for a local nonprofit. I love listening to country music and enjoy a good bottle of wine. I am equally comfortable reading a good book or going out for a night on the town. I have been blessed with extraordinary family and friends.I'm looking for someone who doesn't take life too seriously and who enjoys a good laugh at their own expense...or even better at the expense of others (who doesn't enjoy a good episode of America's Funniest Videos every now and then?). I'm at a point in my life where I'm happy with my job, my family, and myself and I want to find some to share that with. It would be great to find a man I can enjoy the finer things (romantic nights out and exotic travel) and the not-so-finer things (trashy TV and dive bars) with.If you'd like to learn more about me or gauge whether or not my picture is an accurate portrayal of my CURRENT appearance please shoot me an ***

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