Total users: 61,124,212 Online users: 219,927
Cristina, 34
United States, New York, Bay Shore

Offline, last seen Thu, 29 Jan 2026 08:21:48

About Me

The most wonderful notion of knowing what you need romantically.No longer do you go open eyed into every encounter you have with an attractive member of the opposite sex. *** stand armed with a checklist of things that are necessary, unnecessary or forgivable.First, forgive me for all my romantic ideals, for my commands. I just want someone to challenge me, as well as meet and overcome all the mental obstacles I build around my heart. I demand, I desire, I deny. I am a Rubik’s cube of romantic opportunity. I am all intentions, I have plans, I have plans about plans. I will fight, grab and want. I need for you to do the same. Do not tell me you don’t know, tell me what you want. Tell me you want for nothing. Tell me that it is working, or it isn’t. I can’t read you mind, so I say what’s on mine. Blunt, perhaps. Or maybe I just know that moments are precious and if I have expectations then I won’t spend trying to find out what I want. Or finding out you don’t really want me. Fight for me. I want a confidante. I want someone who will grab me up and laugh loudly with me. Be foolish with me. Touch my elbow, or arm. Let me know that you, like me, sometimes just have to reach out and touch. Double check, that this, us, is as real as it’ll ever be. I don’t want the moon, don’t throw a lasso over it and bring it to my door. Don’t bring a boombox under my window. Don’t even pick me up after my sister’Just indulge me on my silly requests. Get my jokes, even when they are horrid. Understand me. Listen to my music. Kiss me often. Do something with me. Let’s build something, or make something. Hell, let’s invent something. I just want it to be about challenging each other, or understanding the horrible days. Let me cry, I am not pleasant nor pretty when I am snotty and weepy, but just let me get it out. Love my pets. Get along with animals, if you don’t I just may have to kick you to the curb. Unconditional love from an animal is something a lot of people don’t understand, but a hell of a lot of people do. I will cook for you, I will come home from a long day and throw on some sweats and botch. I will try to be positive. Our lives are not a J.Crew weekend Lookbooks. I am not always beautiful in the morning; usually I am not, in fact.I am sarcastic. I am sassy, when need be. I will stand up for what I believe. I will fight my own fights. But you having my back is always nice.I drink beer, and please don’ I drink tequila. I eat meat. I devour salads. I dance, enthusiastically and wildly. I want to have a garden. I don’t want to have more kids until I am emotionally, and financially ready. I want to fall head over heels and yet I don’t want to give up my independence.I call it romantic despair, and it really just gets more despairing. Honestly, I know you, sir, are out there. I know. I feel it when I finish books like The Age of Innocence, I know that once I find you, or you find me, or we are thrown together by the universe that it won’t be perfect. It will be hard, and work. I can’t wait, though because once you get to know me you know if I want something, really really want something, I work damn hard to get it, or as close as I can get.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Photography Action Drama Horror Thriller
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Angelina from Bay Shore | Woman | 34 years old | Aquarius
    Angelina

    Offline

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Have you ever been caught picking a bugar while driving???? Yeah, that's right, I caught someone doing just that today. Made my day.ANYWAYS,I'm just another super busy woman who would like to meet someone I click with to hang out in my spare time. I love unique music, learning, exercise, brunch, good beer, good wine, the occasional cigar, comedy, LOVE comedy. I would really like to meet someone who is unique and can make me laugh. I like art, catching up on a television series that I haven't seen. I just completed Breaking Bad and now I'm catching up on Shameless. My friends tell me I should catch up on the Walking Dead but I just don't have time to watch more than one series at a time. I like meeting new people and if we don't click in "that way," there is always room for new friends. PLEASE READ FURTHER.***The hell with all this positive crap...I've come to the realization that meetville is merely a joke. When I am on here, I am either procrastinating from doing something important, laughing my ass off, or merely deleting messages from men I seriously think created their page as a joke. This site gives me one of two reactions (depending on the mood I'm in) comedic or hopeless...Not hopeless in myself, hell no...Hopeless in the sense that I may find someone I can dig on here.Don't get me wrong, I'm not all negative. I've met a couple really cool guys on here. But few and far between.STAND BY FELLAS! pics of me in my dirty bathroom mirror to come because that is so appealing. Maybe meet for a drink and some dinner. Nothing too big. Just see if we like each other.

    Chat
  • Ashley from Bay Shore | Woman | 34 years old | Leo
    Ashley

    Offline

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    This east coast-turned- I have followed my passion in life and continue to work to maintain a professional career in dance. Of course, I also have another job that pays the bills ;) I've always worked hard, but I like having fun even more. I like challenges, I'm a little stubborn (though willing to compromise), and I will usually go out of my way for others. I listen to a wide variety of music including classic rock, rock, pop, indie rock, alternative, house... basically anything I can groove to. Looking forward to creating new experiences soon...but with whom?? I great first date would be simple and sweet... not overly romantic, yet thoughtful.

    Chat
  • Olga from Bay Shore | Woman | 33 years old | Cancer
    Olga

    Offline

    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am a Midwesterner with Midwestern values.Friends and family are a big part of my life. I love the water and the outdoors. I enjoy an adventure, but sometimes need a little push. No matter what I am doing, I try to make it fun for everyone involved. I'm a little sarcastic, but all in good fun. I'm independent, low maintenance, and a bit of a smart ass.I'm looking for someone mature, but not too much older than myself, who likes to have fun and shares similar interests, is funny and thoughtful. Ultimately, it comes down to finding a connection. Meet up for a drink?

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: