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Melisa, 35
United States, New York, Bay Shore

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Some things about me: I like variety. I'm not the type of person who likes to always go to the same place and do the same things. I like to mix it up and try new things--although like everyone, I have my favorite places, songs, etc. But I believe in mixing it up a bit. It keeps life interesting.I don’t just love music--I am an artist myself. I write my own songs, and sing and play the piano on my own tracks. I have my own website up and would like to do more to promote my music.I’m a little shy and an introvert by nature, probably because I grew up out in the country. But over the years I’ve learned to be more outgoing and can now walk into a room full of strangers and start up a conversation. And I can get talkative around my friends, especially after a drink or two. But I will always be an introvert and a little shy at heart. I love to read and write. If I could be anything, I would be a writer (then a singer). I've written plenty of things but have never had the luck of being published on a national or international level. But I hope to someday. I'm very loyal and have several friends whom I've known for many years. Fitness is a huge part of my life. I work out 3 to 6 times a week and try to eat healthy.What I'm looking for in a guy:I’m looking for a guy who has a good sense of humor, is laid back, trustworthy and fun. I also want a guy who has his life together. Since I like variety, a guy who always just wants to sit at home or visit the same place every time would probably bore me in the long run. I need someone who's open to trying new places and activities. Someone who has some shared interests but also some differences would be great (a few differences will keep it interesting).A physical attraction is important to me, too. Physically speaking, I would like to find a guy who is at least 5’8”, Caucasian (sorry, but that’s just who I’m attracted to) and someone who is lean/in-shape.Well, that’s a glimpse of who I am and what I’m looking for. If you think we could be a good match, feel free to drop me a line. I would tell you some things I don't like (Japanese food is an example) and let you do the rest!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Caribbean Basketball Shooting Sports
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