SIMILAR PEOPLE
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QuinlanOffline
Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48
Changing up my profile a bit as I may have been giving off the wrong impression. To get the baggage out of the way, I am currently going through a divorce after 18 years of marriage. Apparently there is a huge stigma to being friends with and/or dating a guy going through a divorce. I am living in my own house with no involvement with my soon to be ex spouse outside of our 2 children. More baggage is that as anyone going through a divorce knows, we are not allowed to date....and I am no exception. I am on here to find friends and to slowly develop a relationship (either great friends or a life long partner). I am a guy that lives by moral and rules and have no plans on one night stands or shenanigans of any kind. I am, however, trying to make friends and hopefully find someone I can share my and my kid's life with. I've been told that I am an acquired taste as it takes people awhile to realize that I am who I say that I am. That I truly value morals, integrity, and live my life in a way that apparently most people do not. It doesnt seem odd to me as I surround myself with likeminded people as untrustworthy "truth telling impaired" people find other pastures. I have a variety of interests, however, I spend most of my non working time ***years as a Sr Project Manager) with my 2 boys living vicariously through them :-). Any of you parents out there know what I mean, haha. As my profile indicated, I am somewhat of a "comic nerd". I enjoy doing family oriented things, which leaves out bars, nightclubs, and other places like that. I enjoy sitting back with friends drinking socially and left my drinking days to high school and college. Friends would tell me that I have cliff clavin (been called "cliffy") qualities as I have requisite knowledge of some odd facts. I have a thirst for knowledge (anyone with kids knows you get random off the wall questions thrown at you from time to time) and have crammed my brain full of "useless" knowledge. My personality is described as goofy and I love to laugh and have fun. Thankfully my boys and people I am around like typical kid humor and I do have that in large supplies. I working in the mortgage industry (read stuffy) and like to crack jokes and put people at ease to get things done. Not a work-a-holic, but am always ready to do what needs to be done to get the job done. I understand the importance of hard work (in and out of the office) and want my family secure and taken care of. I value my families security as a priority and want them to feel and be secure. This also goes for the person that chooses to spend their time/life with me. As far as the woman I am hoping to share my life with, she needs to be a believer (Christian). I tried to make a marriage work with a non-believer and while there were a number of other issues that caused it to fail, the "unequal yoking" played a large part and I dont want to go through that again. I am no where close to a "bible thumper" or weekly church goer, but I do hold to Christian values and principles. She must be emotionally stable, be full of life and have an inner beauty that I will know when I see/feel it. She needs to be a "Dress down" kind of woman. Nothing is sexier to me than sweats and a tshirt, no makeup and having that "light of the world" sparkle in her eye. Yea, I am a romantic. I am looking for a woman that LOVES to "snuggle", kiss, hug, smacks on the butt, and gazes across the room. As far as "intimacy", I want a woman I can emotionally and physically connect with. Those two things must be in sync. I am not perfect, but when I find the one that meets all of this, she will be perfect for me. I am not a jealous guy, but I do not want to be one of many. I would hope the woman that I invest my time in would also have that same hope for me. I am "old school" when it comes to relationships, hold the door open for a lady, manners, etc. Fem-nazis and "girl power" please do not reply. Please do not confuse this with me believing that women are subservient or something crazy like that. Its that while I love a woman being my equal, this crowd tends to belittle and think that they are better than men. I dont do well with those types of women. I am respectful and expect the same treatment. If you think I can live up to your standards and you up to mine, please message me and we can see where it goes. I would hope that our friendship would allow me to learn your interests and I would plan something that would be memorable for us both. I like to take charge, but do so with the knowledge that you would enjoy what I had planned. With my Project Management background, I would plan it out to a "T" and as the date unfolded would derive my pleasure by watching you enjoy yourself with whatever we ended up doing.
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SanderOffline
Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49
Abt. me,I am very loyal and honest, so that's what I expect from every one.if you can't trust me or count on me,do you need me?? That's how I feel. I'm pretty easy, like the small things, going out to dinner and movies, or jus as happy staying in renting a movie.i believe in staying happy and calm, I don't sweat the small stuff, life's to short to be Angry, jealous or jus pi$/ off all the time. First date would be dinner,then we go from there, maybe movies or jus whatever were both feeling,but we start with dinner, by the end of dinner we will know if we have some kind of connection, if not we had a nice meal and can walk away being friends, might not be a love connection but could be a new friend made...we'll see.
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JoahazOffline
Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48
Update: It was brought to my attention today (October 17th, ***that I sounded**** and/or a-hole-ish...and I'm not. Seriously...if someone gets to know ME you will see. But who cares right? In the end the sun will blow up in 5 billion years and none of this will have ever mattered....much.What exactly is with this fascination of taking photos and making the duck face!?!? I hate that...you should hate it too...DON'T DO IT!! It doesn't make you more attractive...whether you're a girl or a guy...stop doing this!!! F....!!! For F's sake....stop!This website is so boring...you run across the same profiles all the time...you get what you pay for I guess...Did I mention I love girls with eyebrows that look like Grouch Marx's mustache? It's true....screw Nair!the classic thing about going to the local watering hole while you're the only one sober is realizing how f'ed up everyone is...and that's in real life....the internet (POF) can only get worse...Ok so fun stuff in life to me are the following...in no particular order:cookingdrinking some good winewine tastingbeachParisHawaiiHanger 24 beer (you need to realize the magic of this invention...trust me)live music....NOT a tribute band...or cover band...just live music playing their own shiitt.....does this still exist?Karaokewriting poetry...summoning the musedriving fast...like race track stuff....Disneyland....never get bored of this place.the Getty....either one.....the Center for expanded antiquities of Greek origin...and Monet, Picasso, et alSeeing a cool band live from the front row...U2...checking out cool bands at the Coach HouseLaguna Beach......to walking around...jamming with street urchin beach bum musicians is pretty cool.....love the scenery and thankful I'm not one of the empty people who live thereNot going to church....no problem with God...just irritated beyond belief by man made religion...all of them!Reggae Sunday funday at Stadium Brewery...........and then some Lava Cake....saying rad all the time because other adjectives are stupidNot having heated seats in my carNot being pretentious....teaching my daughter softball skills....DodgersLakers (duh)AngelsKingsLA GalaxyPremier League futbolFormula 1 racing....better than any other form of competition for many reasons that do not need to be explained.WRC....rally racing...close second...well not that close to F1, but very coolsushisushiand sushiMexican food....fun summer movies with ten dollar popcorn and 5 dollar box of M $ M'sgirls who like to workout...girls who have a PERSONALITY....most important...beyond every other aspect....is anyone getting this?bbq'ing...sleeping.....especially sleeping in on a weekend day...mornings suck!What I'm not looking for:Immediate jump in the sack hook ups...or ***'t it make sense to get to know each other a bit first before jumping into anything serious? I mean seriously...you might get annoyed with me...or I don't float your boat so why waste the time? And vice/versa....just makes sense.Drama....no I don't care about your last relationship...it's not my business...just be you...be nice...have a personality...and I will do the same.Kids: I love my daughter which is beyond a ridiculous understatement. But with that being said...I don't want any other kids...as in, having biological kids with someone else. That's where I'm at. The longer the description, the more likely you'll get responses....ok...so I could just say a bunch of crap here and it will get me dates...lame.How about, let's just see if we are even compatible...if I was with "the one" who turned me on and vice/versa, would it really matter what the dates involved?! This isn't a gameshow....