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Beverley, 35
United States, Illinois, Chicago Heights

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About Me

My cousin once said to me "I don't know *how* you're still single!" Well, I'm not quite sure either, but part of it is because I'm happy enough on my own and won't "settle", and that I can sometimes come across as a little intimidating (rather than just confident). (Now, just because I'm happy enough on my own doesn't mean that I want to be on my own forever, it just means that I'm going to wait until I meet the right guy rather than rush into something that's "good enough". Make sense? Like someone once said, it's better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't... Having said that, I should warn you that I tend to not jump into things too quickly. I like to take some time to get to know somebody before making a decision one way or the other. I don't want to miss out on anything, but I also don't want to make a premature commitment...)I think the easiest way to tell you about myself is to just give you my "laundry list" :)Me:- single (never been married***don't have any kids (but definitely want them)- independent- intelligent- love to travel and go camping! (but always love getting back home, too - there's nothing like sleeping in your own bed when you've been away for a while)- realist- optimist (yes, it may seem to contradict the "realist" above, but it doesn't really)- romantic- sarcastic (who me? nah...!)- slightly offbeat sense of humour - sometimes people just don't "get it"- generous- confident- easy going- like (and have) tattoos (I have 4 right now, all pretty small) (I also have my nose pierced)- not a big animal person...- Non-smoker--; Prejudice (and yes, I like the classic "chick flick" too...)You:- similar to me, but with enough differences to make life interesting :***know who you are, and know what you want out of life- enjoy camping and travelling- like going to folk fest (or are happy to humour me and keep me company)- adventurous, spontaneous, easy going- appreciate and enjoy spending time with friends and family- as comfortable getting dressed up and going out as wearing sweats and staying in - want kids (this is a dealbreaker for me, and I'd like them sooner than later, but won't rush it just 'cause)- think family (in general) is importantMy one big deal-breaker (aside from wanting kids) is if you're a smoker. Sorry, but if you smoke, I'm not interested.I think that's it for now...although I do want to say that these aren't "requirements", just "wishes", and by no means a list of specifications that you must meet...lolIf I've "favourited" you, it's because I'm intrigued and want to say hi but I either didn't get a chance right away, or I'm not sure what to say...feel free to say hi first, or wait until I do...either one works. :-)(and fair's fair - you've seen my photo, I'd like to see yours - I pretty much won't reply if you don't have one) Lunch, drinks or coffee would be a good start (on a patio in the summer, of course!). If things go well, then maybe go for a walk, or out for dessert. As long as it's something where we can talk and get to know one another, I'm up for it!Just a word of caution - I'm not one to wait a long time before wanting to meet...chatting online is fun and fine for a bit, but the whole point here is to actually meet people, right? :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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