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Paula, 35
United States, Illinois, Chicago Heights

Offline, last seen Wed, 24 Dec 2025 06:37:36

About Me

First things first....I'm a single mom of 3 great kids - ages 10, 7, and 5. Their dad and I get along well and share custody equally. So I have every other week kid-free. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me or be a father to my kids; I have a great job that I love and am able to hold my own in that department. I am looking for someone to hang out with, be my partner in crime, check out the local music scene. Basically someone to just have fun with. That being said, you also need to have a brain in your head and know how to use it. Be able to compose a grammatically correct sentence. I don't think that's too much to ask. :)I consider myself an equal opportunity dater. I'm also extremely open-minded and non-judgmental. And hope to find the same qualities in whoever I hang out with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Irish Italian Portuguese Dance
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