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Virgie, 31
United States, Illinois, Chicago Heights

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About Me

I am very goal oriented. I have accomplished a lot on my own and I am looking for a match not a provider. I truly believe it is important to set long and short term goals. I love my job and love what I do which makes life easier. I don't consider it work because I have a passion for it. I am confident in myself and my successes and can only imagine where I will be years from now. I am very out going. I try everything once because you never know unless you try. I love to cook/bake and entertain. I enjoy a night in cuddled up with a good movie or a night out dancing. Love theme parks, the beach, nature, walks in the park. Love playing indoor and outdoor games and sports because I'm not a sore loser....I just enjoy having fun with others. What makes me unique is my attitude. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home...and even relationships. The remarkable thing is I have a choice everyday regarding the attitude I will embrace for that day. I cannot change my past... I cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. I cannot change the inevitable. The only thing I can do is play on the one string I have, and that is my attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with me... I am in charge of my Attitude. I love most music because I love to dance. I believe life is what you make it and it should be treasured, full of happiness, and even through the storms there will be a lesson learned. I am very happy in my own life and now I am open to finding someone to share it with. I believe that attraction is a big thing and not just physically but mentally. Dinner and Drinks with casual conversation. Maybe something fun but low key. I am open to most things so I am sure we can make anything fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American British Turkish Music Thriller Motorcycle Racing Snowboarding
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