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Zelma, 52
United States, Illinois, Chicago Heights

Offline, last seen Wed, 22 Oct 2025 04:27:47

About Me

I am a native New Yorker and an artsy type. Now, I'm proud to launch them into their lives. I've been singing my whole life and now I'm performing my one-woman-musical play that I wrote. Someday, I hope to make income from it! The prospect of doing my play is both daunting and scary. But, lately, I've been doing a lot of scary things like ending my long-term marriage. I have a lot of energy and I love to go out to see theatre, music, whatever. Anything new is good. Because I'm a musician, I'm into all styles, and I don't rule out anything. I'm looking for a guy who has the same interests as me. I'm looking for an intelligent man who is comfortable in his own skin. Someone successful but not a shark. Someone who enjoys his life despite the problems and issues. Someone who says, "I'll make the best of it." Someone kind, who loves people and the world. Someone who likes himself but isn't egotistical. Somebody who would take me for what I am but at the same point, tell me the truth. My ideal relationship, and I know ideals are to be approached and may not be attained, but my ideal is a committed relationship where we know how to talk about the bad stuff and actively pursue the good stuff. A relationship where we laugh together everyday. It's my Dream Date, so what the heck - The conversation flows, without any self-consciousness. My date begs me to go on the Wonder Wheel. I'm afraid of it so if the guy can get me to go on it with him, well, I must innately trust him. Our first kiss is when our little car reaches the top.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese English Comedy Mystery Sport Shooting Sports
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