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Krista, 54
United States, Illinois, Chicago Heights

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About Me

Hey guys!Listen, I know it's hard to get a sense of who a person really is on these sites. It's hard to know exactly what to write that will catch that one special person's eye; make them take notice and actually make contact with you. So many of us just look without ever contacting, and I think that's sad.You never know....you might be passing up the best thing that ever happened to you! So, in an effort to share a few things about myself, here are some random thoughts. Perhaps you can identify with one or more of these, and if so, ALL IT TAKES IS ONE E-MAIL TO GET THINGS ROLLING! (SEE #15 BELOW!!!!!)RANDOM THOUGHTS:1. I feel that honesty is the most important thing in a relationship.You can't have a good relationship without it.2. I'm generally in a good mood and like to be around positive, happy people. 3. Currently, my daughter is the most important person in my world, but I DEFINITELY have room in my heart/life for the right man too! 4. Don't you just wish everyone in the world could be as nice to each other ALL YEAR LONG as they are at Christmas.5. I love to see it snow and can still hold my own in a snow ball fight!6. I love thunderstorms, good books, rocking chairs on porches facing the beach, roaring fires and the sound of my daughter laughing.7. Seafood, Pizza and pasta are my favorite foods! 8. Ice cream is my favorite sweet! Well, ice cream and SNICKERS!9. If I could pick anywhere in the world to live, my first pick would be on or within walking distance to the beach. Maybe I can retire there one day.10. Been to Vegas a handful of times. Loved it! Wouldn't mind going back to visit! But could NEVER live there.11. I find it hard to deal with high maintenance people. It seems to take energy that could be used for more important things.12. I used to play pool on a ladies team. We took third place in a National Competition in Vegas one year!13. I hate tight, small places.14. My friends and family are very important to me.15. I have been really working on this for many, many years, so most people don’t know that I am basically a shy person. So...DON"T WAIT FOR ME TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE! Sometimes I need a little push/SHOVE! ;***. The ability to laugh at oneself is important. But sometimes I use humor when I feel uncomfortable.17. It's important to me to resolve conflicts as soon as possible. I don't like to go to bed mad! The ability to talk to each other and work it out is so important! It's okay to agree to disagree, but don't let disagreements get in the way of your love for each other.18. I'll never settle for "just good enough" ever again.19. Old fashioned Christian gospel music touches my soul and moves me to tears....but I like most music.20. I don’t know when I got this old, BUT I DON'T INTEND TO ACT LIKE IT!21. Reading is my escape! Reading is my way of making myself slow down and sit for awhile!22. And I miss her so much!23. I'm pretty happy with my life .....(TRANSLATION: I don't need you to rescue me or be my sugar daddy...unless of course you just want to! Kidding...remember I like humor!) ......but I’m kind of scared of growing old alone...guess that's why it would be nice to have someone to share the rest of my life.........24. Sometimes I cry easily when people hurt my feelings...but I don't want to hurt theirs, so they may not even know. 25. I feel pretty sure that the change in people’s priorities and the decrease in the amount of time spent with family has led to all the corruption we see around us. 26. I’m far from perfect, but I'm basically a good person. 27. I am FIERCELY loyal to my friends and PASSIONATE about the things and the people I believe in or care about!28. I still need sparks! And I don’t want to “settle” for good enough!29. Well, I need sparks and someone who knows how to communicate! My crystal ball is broken and I can’t read minds! And oh yeah, I need to be around someone who can laugh!30. I’m a good listener! So what's your story? So...guys.....if you can identify with any of this I'd love to hear from you. (SEE #15 ABOVE) To be honest, I think it would be better if we didn't even call it a "date". Let's just say our first "meeting" is probably better over a cup of coffee or glass of sweet ice tea! Somewhere we could sit comfortably and chat for awhile,......get to know one another........, see if there are any sparks! :-) If so, then we can worry about a first "date".

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  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

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  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

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  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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