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Bobbie, 52
United States, Illinois, Chicago Heights

Offline, last seen Mon, 22 Dec 2025 18:10:55

About Me

I want to try a fresh new approach on fishing you out of this pond! I hope i bait you with my honesty, kindness and good intensions! And that once you know this is the case then you will appreciate me with the same respect. That simple! I have been blessed with great friends ( i still have childhood friends) and i know how to be a friend... i hope i have your attention and that you are agreeing that we are both seeking the same in each other. If you are not completly honest with yourself at this point and time in your life ... then i have nothing to offer. My intentions are that you will want to stop this dating journey and begin to enjoy life as it can be.... please have your priorities in check and a healthy emotional balance with your past experiences. It is a bonus if your heart is open enough to give a fair chance to the person that wants to curl up there and fill all the voids and heal the wounds. I do not want to entertain those not so uncomfortable challenges again!!!Some of my favorite things in a man is a beautiful smile, must be a great kisser. physical attraction to each other is very important, confidient, a positive attitude, a JOB, HUMOR is a must, a fresh scent, good communicator, likes to hold hands, i like a man taller than me since I do enjoy wearing heels, affectionate, it is a kind bonus if you are not a selfish person with your time....!!!!! .... it is important that we can share WE Time together!! I do not desire the need for you to complete me but would appreciate you to compliment me in our new adventures...i am far from being a needy woman :) Just looking forward to honesty, gentle kindness and the softer side of life to share.I will enjoy sharing many little things with you too! Like cooking in the kitchen or grilling with friends, golfing, a hockey game, soft kisses, a star gazing night in a hot tub, kayaking down the river, yard work, a day at the beach or many days at the beach (love to ride seadoos), a rainy morning being lazy together, eating sushi, a day trip to a winery, a back rub, having a cold beer together in the evening, a movie with popcorn, a ride on a sunny day with the top down, a nice vacation when the budget allows, exploring a new restaurant, antique shopping, a walk together, more sweet kisses, a nice martini, a outdoor concert, fishing ( and i know how too) !I am all woman....love manicures, pedicures and keep my personal appearence as pleasing as possible for us both (lol), healthy and no drama...i keep a very clean and neat home....most of my photos are pretty current and true to my appearence.... i would appreciate the same. I seem to find as much humor in myself as i hope to find in others (lol)...I hope I have given you a fair synopsis of my feelings and a general idea of who i am and what i am looking for in a man. It really is not complicated.... Please drop on by and share your thoughts... words are good.... I want you to know the feeling at the end of the day... that home is where you want to be not obligated to be... it is important that you have friends and hobbies that allow you to have male bonding time ... a little you time :) It makes for a healthier relationship.....If we do not connect... I wish you luck and may kindness always greet you at your front door! I live in a beautiful area here in the mountains... maybe a small day trip to chat and lunch together ... something that fits both of our comfort zones.... a date without pretense... just the joy of a first meeting....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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