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Kendra, 54
United States, Illinois, Chicago Heights

Offline, last seen Mon, 23 Feb 2026 10:33:46

About Me

hi,I'm an attractive, extroverted woman looking for a companion, lover and friend. I can still turn heads when I want to but can also be as playful as a child when the mood strikes me. I'm always engaged in a number of creative activities, both professionally and personally. I am high spirited, fun loving, and compassionate. Always physically active, I consider myself to be a brave traveller and adventure seeker. I love sailing, reading, writing, hiking, cycling, cooking, gardening, wine, alternative views of world events, experiencing new cultures and ideas, talking to strangers. I'm very attracted to artists and to contemporary art of many forms. Discussing ideas is essential to who I am. I'm socially conscious, political, loyal and, when inspired, I can be witty and funny in the right company. I'm sailboat not speed boat; slow food not fast food; Beaujolais not coolers; conversationally curious not small talk silly. I'm great with a shovel, pretty good with a hammer, OK with the garden hose. That said, I do like having doors opened for me occasionally. Paradoxical I know. I love kids but I don't have any. I don't eat small birds but I feed them. Go figure!Mutual attraction is essential to me but then again, I feel that beauty is purely subjective. Hard to define chemistry but we'll know if it's there. Is it a smell, or the glint of an eye? Who knows? I believe spirit is in the doing of life. The feeling of a man is far more important to me than what he looks like or what he does all day. I generally like quietly confident, kind, sensual and generous men who are passionate about something - his job, a hobby, family or maybe simply being mad about boats, like me. Doesn't matter. It's the idea of loving something beyond oneself that appeals to me. You might know how to make things happen for yourself and others, and you value experiencing life's rich moments over the acquisition of material things. Laughter is important to me, very hard to resist a man who can make me laugh, but then one can never force that kind of thing. Sound interesting? Please let me know. I choose to respond only to men who appeal to me - for whatever reason - so please don't be offended if I don't write back. A casual meeting over a hot or cold drink to determine any sparks of compatibility and attraction. Low expectations. A real date could follow another day if the incentive is there to meet again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Punk Play Musical Instrument Chinese German Irish Italian Korean Documentary Fantasy Romance
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