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Louise, 54
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

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About Me

I hold the dichotomy: adrenaline rushes and meditative breathing; slice of pizza and a full-bodied red; Grateful Dead and Yo Yo Ma;; string theory and string cheese; physicality and spirituality. Can do corporate and bohemian. Life is how we frame it! Laughter is key. At ourselves, at our predicaments, at the joy in life. Or, perhaps, I am speaking of a sense of humor about it all.Looking for someone with a passion for life, accepting but not complacent about our imperfect offerings, a sense of abiding curiosity and well-founded confidence that is balanced with the knowledge that growth is a must. I believe (hope?) that I share these traits. "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."Dalai Lama"Sometimes you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at right."Hunter/Garcia Seriously? Not bumper cars, we will save that for a third date. Definitely not a movie, no opportunity to talk. A dinner party with your friends, maybe 4th date (we can witness each other in a social context). How about a long walk on a beach, at sunset.-- with a glass of champagne. Phew. I finally figured out the perfect first date.And now I see that this box is optional? Fine - Starbucks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Walking French Japanese Biography Documentary History American Football Bowling Charity
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  • Juicy from Irvington | Woman | 31 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 19-35

    I am a trans-woman this is letting you know i was born male though i consider myself a woman. Please respect me of you dont like it just move on. I am a loving,adventurous type who can watch movies and shop all day.

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  • Muriel from Irvington | Woman | 51 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Looking for a man to spend some of life's precious moments with. I love life and all it has to offer and am looking for a companion who is also positive with a great sense of humor. I enjoy traveling, spending time at the beach, and fine wine. I have a wickedly fast sense of humor and love a man who shares the same. By nature I am very fun loving and social. I have been lucky enough to have a great career in which I've been able to travel the world. Outside of Europe, I think Australia is incredible and hopefully my next long trip will be to New Zealand. On any given Sunday, you'll find me relaxing at the beach after a nice bike ride along the water's edge. Very spontaneous and open to new adventures (although sky diving is not one of them). If you are honest, fun loving, and enjoy a good laugh...you're the man for me. Oh, last but not least, I am divorced but definitely not bitter. I think the world of my ex-husband and am one who believes that you should always have love in your heart for people that have been in your life. I like jewels, but my favorite treasures are my friends whom I laugh with, cry with, and spend precious time with. Looking for that guy that can be my best friend, companion, and lover. As for more about me, come find out what I'll all about..... First contact would be something very casual. Open to suggestions:)My ideal first date would be to take a picnic with you. Somewhere beautiful...maybe the beach...where we could just spend some alone time to get to know each other. I'm very romantic so strawberries and champagne would set the stage for a nice romantic encounter. I'm also very affectionate and hope you are the same. Perhaps a nice sunset, a hug, and some sweet kisses to top off the day.....

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  • Anita from Irvington | Woman | 54 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I welcome the simple indulgences in life. I enjoy dressing up and feeling feminine, but I am just as comfortable in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt with my hair pulled up. My focus is more on enjoying the moment than how I look. I take pleasure in dancing and singing (although I am not necessarily good at either). I enjoy the beauty of the outdoors and partake in long walks, hiking, backpacking, kayaking (own a 2-seater!), fishing, camping, biking and snowshoeing. I've competed in various sports throughout my life and attended college on a basketball and academic scholarship. My free time is filled with attending sporting events, movies, reading, volunteering, the attractions of the city, and visiting with friends or family. I also relish "down time" and the pleasures of cuddling in front of a fire while listening to music or watching a movie. I'm open to exploring other's interests and activities. I'm well-balanced, educated, optimistic, out-going, affectionate, and a good communicator and listener. Frequently I laugh at myself, as I appreciate a sense of humor. I have a sound job, am financially stable and am proud of my accomplishments. I have lived a meaningful life and wear my wrinkles and scars with pride. My greatest success in life is having raised two amazing kids, who are now 21 and 23 years old. What do I want in a relationship? I am interested in meeting a man who is positive, intelligent, successful, affectionate, open-minded, with a sense of humor who can put up with my silliness and who enjoys many of the same activities that I do. I want someone who cares about others, is friendly and outgoing, is secure in who he is and is giving, respectful and trusting in a relationship. He should be proud enough in our relationship to hold my hand, hug me and kiss me in public without caring what others think. I am attracted to tall men and I need to feel that chemistry and passion between us. Please only contact me if you are seeking a relationship, as I am not inerested in casual dating. I want to find my best friend, companion and lover. I am happy with my life. I would like to share it with someone and learn and grow from each other. I look forward to what the future has to offer. Contact me if you are interested in a similar journey! Surprise me....

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