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Louise, 54
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

Offline, last seen Tue, 13 Jan 2026 13:46:23

About Me

I hold the dichotomy: adrenaline rushes and meditative breathing; slice of pizza and a full-bodied red; Grateful Dead and Yo Yo Ma;; string theory and string cheese; physicality and spirituality. Can do corporate and bohemian. Life is how we frame it! Laughter is key. At ourselves, at our predicaments, at the joy in life. Or, perhaps, I am speaking of a sense of humor about it all.Looking for someone with a passion for life, accepting but not complacent about our imperfect offerings, a sense of abiding curiosity and well-founded confidence that is balanced with the knowledge that growth is a must. I believe (hope?) that I share these traits. "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."Dalai Lama"Sometimes you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at right."Hunter/Garcia Seriously? Not bumper cars, we will save that for a third date. Definitely not a movie, no opportunity to talk. A dinner party with your friends, maybe 4th date (we can witness each other in a social context). How about a long walk on a beach, at sunset.-- with a glass of champagne. Phew. I finally figured out the perfect first date.And now I see that this box is optional? Fine - Starbucks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Walking French Japanese Biography Documentary History American Football Bowling Charity
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    i am a regular down to earth girl, looking for a normal guy. I love to explore the world out there and the bay area as well. I am fun and easy going, I enjoy outdoor activities and candle light dinners as well . Martinis , Dinner yum yum

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