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Louise, 54
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

Offline, last seen Fri, 13 Mar 2026 10:04:59

About Me

I hold the dichotomy: adrenaline rushes and meditative breathing; slice of pizza and a full-bodied red; Grateful Dead and Yo Yo Ma;; string theory and string cheese; physicality and spirituality. Can do corporate and bohemian. Life is how we frame it! Laughter is key. At ourselves, at our predicaments, at the joy in life. Or, perhaps, I am speaking of a sense of humor about it all.Looking for someone with a passion for life, accepting but not complacent about our imperfect offerings, a sense of abiding curiosity and well-founded confidence that is balanced with the knowledge that growth is a must. I believe (hope?) that I share these traits. "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."Dalai Lama"Sometimes you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at right."Hunter/Garcia Seriously? Not bumper cars, we will save that for a third date. Definitely not a movie, no opportunity to talk. A dinner party with your friends, maybe 4th date (we can witness each other in a social context). How about a long walk on a beach, at sunset.-- with a glass of champagne. Phew. I finally figured out the perfect first date.And now I see that this box is optional? Fine - Starbucks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Walking French Japanese Biography Documentary History American Football Bowling Charity
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  • Maura from Irvington | Woman | 53 years old | Pisces
    Maura

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Love comes from the soul and eyes are the window to the soul. You can tell some one you love them just by the way you look at them,, with no words, you can feel love from the eyes. Love is not wanting to miss that person but letting them fly anyway. If you love someone they can break your favorite item and it is ok because nothing is more important than them. Love is not wanting to fight because you cant stand them to be upset with you... Love is touch, a gentle touch or a big strong hug. Love is laughing and playing and never growing old because they are never old to you. Love is watching them sleep and not being able to keep yourself from smiling. Love is not selfish because there JOY gives you JOY. Love is feeling their pain and sharing their pain so together you can heal. Love does not smother but nurtures. We have an endless supply of love,, the more love we give the more LOVE we have to give. I want that LOVE I prefer not to date a smoker because they get mad about smoking outside maybe not at first when it is new but eventually they hold it against you... I guess I am really not looking for a relationship right now,,, I just want to have some fun and maybe I will find the right one by accident,,, I am a GOOD woman. I never cheated. I loved being married I love having the one important person in my life to lay down with every night and to talk to, most important to hold me. I will say I am a little afraid of marriage right now, not because I did not love being married but because I do not want another divorce. I have a wonderful life I am happy in every other aspect of my life. I challenge myself daily. Sometimes I bite off more than I can chew but I challenge myself to the extreme right now to keep my mind busy and to keep from being so darn lonely. It has been over 5 years now and that is enough. I am successful so I would not be a financial burden. I am just stuck in this small town. I now have time which allows me to realize once again that I am alone. If you want a really good woman who got left behind then please contact me. It would be hard for me to move right now because I have so many commitments but I would be willing to move in the future. I am allergic to DOGs, cats, well all animals in the house,,, and this is causing such a problem most of the good looking guys who seem nice have a dog or a cat,,, I feel this is because they have such a big heart and share it with pets. Listen If you think I may not be right for you but you have a friend tell him about me,,, I am for real… I can send references,, LOL. The pics look like me what would be the point if they did not... "There is nothing as strong as gentleness and nothing as gentle as real strength". "The best things in Life are unseen That’s why we close our eyes to KISS, CRY and DREAM".PS: I am a good girl so if you are into anything abnormal pass me by, fun is one thing but I don't do kink.Just so you know..... I can cook (I cooked every meal when raising my family) but I don't enjoy it anymore. I can clean but I preffer a maidIf you are looking for a maid keep going,, just being honest.. sorryI work hard and want to play hardNote: Any insitutions or individuals using this site or any associated sites......you Do Not have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do , it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifacations. I suggest all meetville members put this on their profile Your best bet is to have something fun planned,,, I know what you are thinking what if we don't hit it off? Well then we will just part ways nicely,,, Just because you have some fun planned don't mean you will be forced to go through with it. I am at the age wear life seams to be to short,, so I want to play and have fun.. I am very healthy but I want to live like I have a bucket list. If you are to grown up we will not get along.... besides even if you think I am not the one for you,,, you will still want to be my friend because I am easy to get along with... Please be straight with me though if we are on the friend train,, and that will be cool.. Use your imagination and lets have some fun....

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  • Gladys from Irvington | Woman | 54 years old | Sagittarius
    Gladys

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I enjoy being outdoors, especially in summer. I love the beach or anywhere on the water (boating, jet skiing) Enjoy being around friends and family. Try to get to the gym everyday. Love to take walks/rides on the bike path. Enjoy listening to music, my favorite being classic rock. I like going to concerts. Also enjoy being on the back seat of a motorcycle. A good sense of humor is important. I love to laugh!"Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take but by the number of moments that take your breath away" Coffee or lunch to start. See where it goes from there.

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  • Lila from Irvington | Woman | 54 years old | Scorpio
    Lila

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    You are probably wondering what I have to offer you, right? Well, I am a fun loving woman who loves to laugh, has a great sense of humor and a man who can make me laugh is very sexy! I love to go to sporting events and am a Giants and Niner's fan. You will never hear me complain about your watching sports! I enjoy live music, going to concerts and taking day trips to explore places I haven't been before. You could find my nose in a good book, going to the movies, talking walks, dancing and generally up for anything fun! I am looking for a man who I can be myself around and being the hopeless romantic that I am, I would love to find a man who when looking at me, makes me feel like I am the only woman in the room....ahhhhhhh!!!! I love to get dressed up and feel girly but also don't have a problem getting dirty or heading out without hair and makeup done.- that's ok....I will keep busy while you are gone!!I am very affectionate, outgoing and young at heart. I have a great sense of humor and don't take myself seriously. I have learned to not sweat the small stuff and enjoy what life has to offer. I love to snuggle, cuddle and will always make the man in my life feel special.I am very close to my grown sons and their wives and love spending time with them. Nothing is more important than family!You don't want to miss the opportunity to meet me (ha, ha,)!!! If you don't, I wish you only the best of luck in your search and thank you for reading my profile. After talking or texting a couple of times, I think it's best to meet.....and coffee or a glass of wine works for me!!!!

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