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Lilian, 51
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

Offline, last seen Wed, 15 Jul 2026 10:30:55

About Me

How do you talk about yourself without sounding conceited, fake or pretentious? All of which I am not. Friends and family would describe me as honest, loyal, trustworthy, caring and giving. I am a faithful true friend. I consider myself to be a confident, self sufficient woman, not needy, clingy or demanding. I am a people person but enjoy my alone time. Being the best I can be in my personal and professional lives is important to me. I am goal oriented and give 110% to achieve the goals I set for myself. I’m a planner and organizer but welcome change and spontaneity. I am curious by nature and love to learn new things. Being a true red-head I’m incredibly passionate and romantic. With age comes wisdom and I’m ready to slow down a little and enjoy the simpler things life has to offer. I believe that this site is meant as a meet and greet. If it turns into a friendship which a relationship should be based on and then into something more, then it is meant to be. I go into this with no real expectations but with the hope that I may find my perfect match. Life is way to short so I attempt to live each day as if it were my last! Yesterday is a memory, today is a blessing and tomorrow is a gift.My proudest accomplishment is being a mother.my heart and soul!! I’m easy to please, love to be surprised, enjoy both the simple pleasures and the finer things life has to offer. I enjoy walks on the beach, long drives, dinners out or in, cooking, movies, shows, musicals, traveling, cuddling on the couch to watch TV or just talk. I’ll try (almost) anything once, twice if I like it! Music has been a huge part of my life. I enjoy rock, jazz, country, easy listening, classical, hip hop and even some rap. While I'm not a sports fanatic, I’ll watch football with you if you’ll watch ice skating with me…deal? I strive to live a healthy lifestyle to ensure that I may enjoy my golden years . If what you've read put a smile on your face just think of what may happen if we meet!Thank you for taking time to read my profile. Good luck in your search for happiness! somewhere comfortable and quiet so we can talk and get to know a little about each other....if there is a true connection, then we can decide where to go on our first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Craft Making Caribbean German Irish Korean Middle Eastern Thriller Ice Hockey
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