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Shelby, 55
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

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About Me

I’ve spent a lot of years raising my kids and building a career. Now the kids are pretty much doing their own thing and my career is moving along, so I think it’s time for me! I have the same best friends that I had in elementary, junior high and high school, and enjoy as much social time with them as possible. I have a great family and also love to get together with them as much as I can. While my life is full, busy and basically really great, I would love to develop a relationship with a man who also enjoys his life, but is ready for a companion to spend great times with.I respect a man who is successful in any area, whether in his career, sports, art or music. I want a man who also has good friendships and preferably close ties to family, as well as a relationship with God.While I am a strong, self-sufficient woman, I have old-fashioned morals and love a man who is a gentleman and hope to find that some chivalry still lives!I know that my man is out there; the one who is secure,fun, loving and adventurous, not controlling, who will encourage my active life, as I will his, and then, we will have fun together and live our lives happily!I am hoping that there is a man left in the world who is actually strong and secure enough to plan a date and court a woman! When it comes to a good date, I love it when someone thinks about something nice to do and plans it out. I like a first date to be a good time to get to know each other, so part of it should be wining and/or dining for that opportunity to have a good conversation, but then, something fun, romantic or memorable is nice, even if it's something simple, like watching the sun set or walking or even sitting on the beach.WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, or personal use-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile information or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Irish Middle Eastern
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