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Margery, 54
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

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About Me

A little about me... I don't have any close family (and I regret that deeply) but I love my dog and will do just about anything to keep him safe and loved. Axel (Chinese Shar Pei) is my best buddy. I'm a calm person by nature...no drama scenes here. I love to laugh and I like to be around happy people. I am a practicing Buddhist and I love it...don't worry; I don't try to convert others...not an all-night sit at one machine kind of thing, just roaming around checking things out and enjoying people watching. Love to go anywhere and people watch. I'm outgoing and like to be part of the crowd too. I am not all that interested in exercising, my metabolism keeps me thin and I am happy with that. I'm back in college (online); I'm tired of my profession and am working on a career change from accounting to IT.I enjoy traveling and like to take my time to relax once I reach my destination. I love the ocean and beaches and the rain, especially during thunderstorms. I have no strong ties here and I'm open to moving just about anywhere.I, I, I, I'm tired of talking about me so that's enough of that.About the one I'm looking for...Jodee Messina said it best... "I want a man that stands besides me, not in front or behind me, give me two arms that want to hold me, not own me, and I'll give all the love in my heart. Stand beside me, be true, don't tell lies to me, I'm not looking for a fantasy, I want a man that stands beside me... "Someone who is honest with good morals. easy going, down to earth, comfortable in suits or jeans - whatever the occasion calls for, social drinking ok, spontaneous, good sense of humor, optimist... Perhaps just as simple as meeting at a bar for a drink, and then dinner if all goes well with drinks. Somewhere quiet enough so as to be able to talk to one another about our lives. No movies...how do you get to know someone in a movie theatre where you can't talk?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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