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Elva, 54
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

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About Me

Gentlemen, please remember that neither Athletic and Toned, Slender, nor Average looks like: a "few extra pounds". I am not at all interested in someone who has listed in their profile - Athletic and toned and is neither of those things. Be honest with your profile information because pictures don't lie. And if you post "old" pictures that are many, many pounds ago, I don't want to meet that either. Always be yourself. Unless you can be a pirate. Then always be a pirate! Pirates would post ACTUAL pictures and make ACCURATE body type choices...because they CAN!!I want to begin by saying that I love to cycle. Ever since I found this sport over 9 years ago I have been a dedicated follower. I feel like the mailman, neither rain, nor snow, nor….well, you get the idea, when it comes to cycling.I'm blunt, I seem to have no override on my blunt monitor, sometimes a flaw sometimes an entertainment. I'm definitely a laugh out loud kinda girl. I try to see the humorous side of life when at all possible. So there are going to be times when I laugh inappropriately. Therefore, I enjoy people who are not so full of themselves that they can't see the everyday funny stuff, like .......something stuck in your teeth or one of those little boogers (sp ck) that flap when you breath and no one bothers to tell you and you find out AFTER you’ve given an hour presentation. I look for lots of eyebrow lifting and winking from across a crowded room, or is that a movie I saw??? What? At this age, lots of things become “iffy”;-) Don’t judge.While I don’t own a tattoo, I feel comfortable saying that a few of my past relationships garnered enough status that one might think there is one, most likely in the vicinity of what I sit on, because that is how they acted.I'd like to meet someone you can count on to be there when something hits the fan, like it or not that's a big part of life. I will say that I'm a stable person that is usually happy and always full of life or full of something. I love my work, my friends and my family, not necessarily in any order on any given day, it’s a fluctuating thing. If you are honest, you experience the same thing. I'm looking for someone with a keen sense of humor who also possesses ongoing, definitive, life goals. He wouldn't always have to be right, but would understand that I do;-) . He would be open to others thoughts and feelings. This person would have been in enough relationships to know what he wants/needs from a relationship. He wouldn't suffocate the person with whom he becomes involved. Actually this guy could simply be an honest to God real person with a heart, that isn't pacing the cage. He knows who his is and doesn't feel like he needs to take people in by his "amazingness"; he just is what he is....thanks Popeye;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Adventure Comedy Crime Fantasy Sport Archery Tennis
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