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Selena, 52
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

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About Me

I'm a positive, generally happy woman who enjoys a variety of pursuits and activities. I like water--swimming or boating when I get a chance and even just running outside in a rainstorm. I enjoy walking and paying attention to the sights, sounds and scents along the way. I always enjoy being in nature--walking or hiking--but walking in a city can energize me with the myriad movement of colour and sounds and smells. Both make me feel small yet blessed to be a part of this great creation.I am a reader and a learner. I read for self improvement, to increase my knowledge so I can be a better nurse, and of course, quite often, for the shear pleasure of a descriptive phrase or soul touching story.I love to cook, both inventing new dishes or preserving or improving on the classics. Would love to cook for someone. Or, even better, with someone.I like travelling and would like to do so much more exploring of this world. I would like to find a partner to enjoy it with me and with whom I can share the memories of our experiences years into the future. I like the arts and draw for a hobby (as you can see in my pics) I also love music and usually have some tunes playing in the background and often you will hear me singing as I go about my day. One of the things I'd like to do is learn how to play the guitar. I can play the trumpet but I don't do it too often since moving to the city as it's a bit loud. Besides, I can't sing with it. I also find that writing short stories and poems can focus me and relax me when something is on my mind.Really, all of the above things do that for me. You should enjoy many of the things I do, but also bring some new interests of your own to introduce me to. You should be a positive, well adjusted man; a hard worker but one who also values just having fun and enjoying himself. You should be curious and creative. And it should go without saying, you should be honest and truly interested in developing a deep and lasting relationship. Sometimes I see someone with a profile that really "sings" to me and I will send a message. I do so only if I truly feel there could be a connection. I figure you'll answer or not as your own sense of self dictates, but my thoughts on this are; what harm can come in sending a reply. I only takes a moment, does not obligate you any way and may be the beginning of something special. If anything you've read "sings" to you, please don't be shy--send me a message. There's no telling where it may lead.Here are a few music selections from among my many *** a place to have a good talk with each other

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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