Total users: 60,134,613 Online users: 216,782
Chandra, 51
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

Offline, last seen Thu, 27 Nov 2025 21:59:43

About Me

If you can hold down your half of a good conversation, let’s talk. I’d like to meet a man who would welcome a caring woman with whom to share what he has happening in his life. I’d never drag you shopping as I’d be more interested in a couples massage than a matching designer purse and shoes. Please don’t ask me to go golfing with you though I’d be more than happy to go fishing or camping.Though I’m worldly and progressive in my thinking, I’m more traditional in my values. My home is important to me and there I love to cook, read and spend time with my family. Family right now means my two growing but not yet grown children. A perfect evening would be me cooking a wholesome meal followed by a game that generates some laughter all around. Though an evening out to expand horizons is always welcome be it some unique music, conversation, people or places. I’m a natural woman who loves nature. If you know of a hidden lake somewhere to go skinny dipping, count me in. I love to swim and do so almost daily though I would prefer a lake to the pool.It’s hard to list my interests because I’m always discovering more. So ask me about any of these things from my past (and present) to start the conversation:-- Swimming in the Indian ocean- Learning mediation skills- Fishing with a rod and a net- My brother’s Bavarian wedding- Playing a card game for two called “Spite and Malice”- Square foot gardening - How to use pivot tables in Excel- Raising an Indigo child- The dance step used at Cree Round Dances- Being adopted into the Traore family of West Africa- Snorkeling in the Bahamas- Hitchhiking along the Saguenay river in Quebec-- Cooking gourmet vegetarian (I do eat meat now) Somewhere we could talk to get to know one another - either walking or at a restaurant or coffee shop.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Blues German Irish Mexican Spanish Fantasy Music Sport
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Eddie from Irvington | Woman | 51 years old | Pisces
    Eddie

    Online

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Let me say first off, that I am on this site as a tool to MEET someone. I don't want to just ***, text and chat. I want to meet face to face, so that I can see, hear, and touch you. So, if you are not willing to meet me in person, please contact someone else. Thank youWell, I may be prejudiced, but I think I am really fun, dynamic, outgoing, extrememly extroverted, full of adventure (you won't believe have the "adventures" that I have gotten myself into), fun, witty (well that could be subjective), kind, compassionate, PASSIONATE, loving, affectionate and willing to accept most challenges. I have a love of life and desire happiness and joy. I am very positive and upbeat. My boss recently told me that I was the most positive person he has ever known in his life. This really blew me away, but I was very humbled and grateful for that statement. Most of my friends say they like to be around me as I am charismatic, and that my personality and savoir de vivre are contagious. My best friend says I have a childlike naivetee that is refreshing, but be sure that I can be a naughty girl when the time is right. So, why am I single??? Well, 1- I chose badly; 2- I am not willing to put up with crap anymore, 3- I have been busy rearing my children as well. However, life is too short, so we should enjoy it while we can. At a recent training session, my co-workers were directed to describe each other with one word. The descriptions that I received were sexy, vivacious, attractive, welcoming, energetic, exuberant, dramatic, spunky, dazzling, sparkling, considerate, flamboyant, sweet, whirlwind. I love to laugh, smile and enjoy life. I am very sensual and affectionate and would love to share those traits with someone. To make a living, I am a Regional IT Manager covering the Northern and Eastern Districts of TX. I have a wonderful job and I am blessed to love what I do. I have two boys 20 and 15 and always seem to have a house full of testosterone!. I have a lake house which I totally enjoy.; going to the gym. I am a cultured soul and appreciate the arts.I have a background in Music performance and love to spend time performing or attending concerts. I am a profesional classical performing artist but I can also be a silly goof with family and friends. I love to laugh and have fun. What do I want in a man? Well, being Tall, Dark and Handsome doesn't hurt. (Hey if you are blonde or red-headed, that is OK too). If you have a charming smile, a sexy laugh and a sense of humor then you are definitely in the running. If you are self-confident, emotionally mature, and financially responsible, then how can I resist?? If you have a temper, you can keep it. I want someone who is easy going, goes with the flow, always has a smile handy and looks at the glass half full. I would prefer an initial meet and greet and if there is chemistry, our second date could be something fun like a nice walk/hike in the park or a bike ride while we talk and get to know each other. Dinner with wine would be a relaxing alternative. I am pretty open to whatever we want to do. Please no smoking!

    Chat
  • Nita from Irvington | Woman | 51 years old | Taurus
    Nita

    Offline

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Reading; bike riding walking playing board games bowling playing pool Cup of coffee talk get to know each other to see if there is a connection and if so talk about second date

    Chat
  • Lesley from Irvington | Woman | 55 years old | Pisces
    Lesley

    Offline

    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am very positive person,optimistic,romantic,affectionate,kind,playful,sensual,charming,intelligent and happy.I am inquisitive, philosophical and wise. Street smart.I love animals.I love to travel -I love warm climate,I love nature,the ocean,the forest.. I also like to discover new and interesting places. I enjoy going to museums,art fairs,concerts,musicals and movies.I was married twice and have no children.Life is good,but would certainly be better with that someone special by my side.I am looking for man to live for.... and have a peaceful relaxing life.PS. Picture in white was taken on New Year's Eve of ***. And in red was taken on 4th of July ***.- on September of ***. Pix in blue was taken in December of ***. Let it be surprise....

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: