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Chandra, 51
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

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About Me

If you can hold down your half of a good conversation, let’s talk. I’d like to meet a man who would welcome a caring woman with whom to share what he has happening in his life. I’d never drag you shopping as I’d be more interested in a couples massage than a matching designer purse and shoes. Please don’t ask me to go golfing with you though I’d be more than happy to go fishing or camping.Though I’m worldly and progressive in my thinking, I’m more traditional in my values. My home is important to me and there I love to cook, read and spend time with my family. Family right now means my two growing but not yet grown children. A perfect evening would be me cooking a wholesome meal followed by a game that generates some laughter all around. Though an evening out to expand horizons is always welcome be it some unique music, conversation, people or places. I’m a natural woman who loves nature. If you know of a hidden lake somewhere to go skinny dipping, count me in. I love to swim and do so almost daily though I would prefer a lake to the pool.It’s hard to list my interests because I’m always discovering more. So ask me about any of these things from my past (and present) to start the conversation:-- Swimming in the Indian ocean- Learning mediation skills- Fishing with a rod and a net- My brother’s Bavarian wedding- Playing a card game for two called “Spite and Malice”- Square foot gardening - How to use pivot tables in Excel- Raising an Indigo child- The dance step used at Cree Round Dances- Being adopted into the Traore family of West Africa- Snorkeling in the Bahamas- Hitchhiking along the Saguenay river in Quebec-- Cooking gourmet vegetarian (I do eat meat now) Somewhere we could talk to get to know one another - either walking or at a restaurant or coffee shop.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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