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Lupe, 54
United States, South Carolina, Lexington

Offline, last seen Mon, 16 Mar 2026 20:12:01

About Me

Hi... I work as a computer programmer and while I enjoy it very much, I'm more focused on my time-off. I enjoy going to a good concert, spending a day in NYC or any city for that matter, going for walks, taking in a movie, trying to play tennis without looking totally stupid, strolling a beach boardwalk and just hanging out doing nothing. I would like to do some more world traveling in the future. (I need someone fun to go with though!). I'm pretty easy going and really try to make the best of any given situation. I feel it's more important who you are with than what you are doing. So yes, I can sit through Ironman if we're holding hands and be very happy :-). I tend to see the humor in most things and work at becoming a full-fledged grownup someday. I guess my friends would describe me thoughtful, caring, honest to a tee, true to my word and generous. I have 2 grown children who live out of state and judging from their successes, I've done a pretty good job I think. I have a little dog and a cat that co-exist. Jake, my dog, loves her (and everyone really), but she gets him in a headlock often to show who is boss. Now onto you....The man I hope to find would be intelligent, playful, humorous, and would turn out to be my best friend for life. Oh to think that could actually happen right here on POF! Sigh.....Honesty, trust and respect are foremost. If you aren't honest, there's no trust or respect. I have no interest in arrogance and playing head games with anyone. I hope to find someone who isn't addicted to this dating site and is serious about meeting the "right" one. I have no desire to become a dating guru and hope to get off this site fairly soon, like tomorrow if possible. Anything that doesn't seem like a job interview

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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