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I love music and laughing and kindness. I like being around expressive, caring, and fun loving people. Throw in some interesting food and maybe a glass of wine, and I'm feeling pretty open and happy.I like the idea that we are all historians, and that our stories are nuanced with lore, myth, truth and drama. I want to hear your story. I'll like it if you want to hear mine.I'm independent, and support myself; I live within my means; at 35 I divorced, and with three school aged kids at home, put myself through college and earned a bachelor's then a master's degree. I still use my fingers to count.I want to be a wife again some day. Music: (My one true salvation.) I'm currently on a Mark Knopfler jag. (It's lasted about 14 years.;Belief." I want to crawl up inside it and stay awhile. It's everything I want in a song.; I'm recently into roasting vegetables of all kinds; but sometimes I just need a bit of rare steak and a glass of wine; I'm told I'm evil when I get too hungry. I love everything there is to love about fresh limes. I have an expensive watermelon habit, and I eat a lot of Tzatziki these days. I make a chocolate cake that, once people have eaten it, they wake up screaming for in the night. I use it to get my way sometimes. Hobbies: I love to take pictures of people, mostly people that I love. I also love to make videos for my family and friends. I've gotten my hands on old home movies and videos and made some neato photo/video tributes. Makes me happy. I also like to walk with music blaring in my earphones. Thrift store shopping is fun; my little sister is the queen of the thrift shop find; we've had the best time tearing about L.A. from one Goodwill to another, and have found really great stuff. I also love decorating my house, feathering the nest; comfort and beauty in my world matter.My children and grandchild are the lights of my life. My granddaughter is five years old; she is bright, funny, wise and beautiful. I completely love being her Yia yia.I love good communication, and value quality over quantity. Talking that's mindful, interested, and involves exploring ideas really does it for me. Talking isn't the end all and be all of good communication---silence is important, too. I'm most drawn to people who understand their history and want to tell their story. I most enjoy the company of people who aren't afraid to lean into the full range of their emotional experiences, and know how to own who they are. A shared sense of community creates endless possibilities for doing things for and with each other. I have the best time with people who share an interest in what's happening around the community and the world, and get involved.I'm sensitive to unbalanced power in relationships. "Shoulder to shoulder" resonates immediately. When equality is present, then the good stuff of friendship, attraction, intimacy and connection is there, too. Without it, all that pesky "drama" and "game playing" goes on, and even you "easy going, laid back"True story: I'm considering photoshop deception to contrive some dazzling photos of me water skiing, zip-lining, biking, hiking, and climbing Mount Kilimanjaro... A word to the wise: not all chicks like "chick flix." Also, I'll ask you to kindly send me a message with a few lines if you are interested. I don't really check the "interested" or "so and so wants to meet you," list. Eating together is always a good start. Live music maybe? Something outside. I like to see how people interact with the world around them. A festival or other community event could be a great way to get to know each other, and share some laughs. I'm noticing that some people want a less date-like meet up to see if there's chemistry. I'm totally okay with that, too. We like what we like, right?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Latin British Middle Eastern Thai Family & Kids Horror Thriller
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  • Cecilia from Lexington | Woman | 52 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Other woman may set the bar low I do not . So watch your words . Before you read I am very nice . Due to others although I can't judge them not my place . DO NOT FAVORITE Me. Either you can't get past mymail settings or you are stalking me you know it you do it over and over . Next time I will write you a testimonial about this . Okay back to my profile lol Lots of you say must be good kisser for me again not judging it's like a turn off . A kiss is only amazing when 2 people have it . It's not the same . When you have passion kissing is a natural as is the rest . After this please don't *** it . How do you even know a woman wants to kiss you it's a profile . A photo . I would start as a friend see what follows . Not looking for dates free dinners or rushing. Former NYSE compliance auditor . I am a city person . Have 2 kids one away at school one in high school . I'm private In what I write , very open and warm once I know someone . I was married 17 years divorced for 6. I did find love passion with my best friend he passed Away . I am looking for my best friend with passion and ready to do the work . I don't really smoke at all anymore . Do enjoy it here and there . No problem not to smoke at all . I am spiritual take from many religions . I believe In karma doing what's right . I do believe . I love many things it all depends who I am with . I have no lists you need only be or have that something to my eyes only. , I can be sassy and have an edge. I'm fast paced . Looking for someone to partner with however it starts some place. I'm happy on my own Lately realized life is too short. I would' love to Love again under the right circumstances. Please don't *** are blurry I see that . I had many *** no need for you critiques Just *** .Live and let live. I do not look at who wants to meet me and I do not l Use that feature .Email is best . Photos real not sunglasses hats and your dog want to date you not your dog would like to see you not pick you out of a crowd . My pictures are real and some all natural .I am not hey sexy hey hottie show dignity and respect not Into any Sexual messages . I want a REAL man because I am a real woman It's all about respect . I have to write all this not to waste time we never get back time. My best friend with passion I would love again. If I find it. I am in no way looking to get married or rush things . I am very secure being on my own .I am Into karma positive thoughts good energy. I'm learning life lessons , it's how we Handel things. I should not be attracting anyone not of that on here as I am not of that . I am a good person . Big heart . Depends who I am meeting . I don't believe 2 people need to be joined by the hip so all the same hobbies are not important . You don't need to go shopping and have a mani and pedi .

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  • Corrine from Lexington | Woman | 51 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Even though I am a teacher, I am not good at writing about myself. I am an honest person. I am outgoing and pretty passionate about my job. I am a very good friend and mom. I am very easily read - can never play poker because everything is very easily seen on my face!!

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  • Letha from Lexington | Woman | 51 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am looking for someone who takes care of himself, active, WORKOUT at least 4 times a week!!! (big, muscular arms are my fav). I workout everyday, rest on Sunday, unless out hiking! Maybe we can hit a Crossfit class together, do a 5k for cancer, or bike! I am very active and don't look my age. I like to travel and yes relax too. Chemistry/attraction is very important. Likes country music and can dance, or at least try it. i love the classic rock/pop/80's etc.. hate rap. Jazz in small doses! Please don't send a pic of yourself in the mirror nor pics of your Harley, boat, dog, car, etc , unless you are in the pics. Sorry, but i don't like alot of facial hair (bushy, untrimmed mustaches/beards) If you are ONLY into watching sports on TV rather than playing sports, then I 'm not your girl. I ll watch some football, baseball, and hockey.. but a lot more fun seeing it live. If drinking at a bar or with your buddies every weekend, is your idea of fun, then happy fishing!! Watching your kids play is completely different! Coffee or drink and/or outdoor activity.. see how it goes.

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