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Mari, 52
United States, South Carolina, Lexington

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About Me

I'm ready to try this again! Like many of you my mood changes as to whether I want to use this venue for dating? I prefer to meet a man in a natural social setting, but let's face it, most of us don't run into "new" potential partners/love matches as we hang out with the same group of friends over and over. I undoubtedly will edit this profile soon as I just erased all the old stuff. As a young girl I learned that I got a lot of attention from the boys if I could compete athletically with them. I guess that somehow carried on into adulthood. Don't get me wrong, I'm not out to "beat" a man at his own game, I just want to be able to hold my own and have him happy to play with me. Growing up on a dead end street with only boys to play with I threw dirt clods, played with dump trucks in the mud by the water faucet outside the house, played baseball and football in our yards and pastures, rode horses and rode bikes all day until mom called us in...As I have gotten older, I have learned to place a huge value on my "girlfriend" relationships.I LOVE to dance and I have great rhythm, I used to country dance in the 90's about two to three times per week, but now just on occasion. I can east coast swing, do a basic salsa and very basic west coast. I also spent many years of my life playing volleyball and recreational softball.I enjoy mostly country, pop and alternative music and have an appreciation for many other types. Cooking in the kitchen together is a turn on... that touch or special look in the eye that only the two of you are aware of as you pass each other in a room is super special. Of course I enjoy all the normal things that couples do, like wine tasting and travel. I was an exchange student out of HS and love learning about other cultures and our own history.Have you ever had someone in your past that was so special that your eyes still light up today when you remember them? You were like two ships passing in the night and you're glad you did, even though your pathways took you in different directions? Sitting/laying quietly together on a beach while one or both of you are reading a book. Him showing me how to surf... Kissing while sitting on a hammock in the yard, sipping wine and sharing the taste of that wine between your interlocked lips. Taking a spontaneous train trip to ??? Taking care of details, like going to the passport office, just so we could be together... Eating at a place that becomes a favorite for the two of you because of the smiling faces of the servers and the experiences the two of you shared there... might be a beach eatery, hole in the wall, or a fancy smanshy place. Of course, admiring him for his special talents that you don't possess yourself. The only thing that mattered was spending time together.......It was suggested to me once to read the book "The Five Languages of Love" which I did... You can even take a computerized test before reading the book (before you have enough knowledge to slant the results of the quiz) that helps you discover what love language you personally speak and what your unique needs are. My results were extremely accurate. What matters most to me is.... 1) Quality Time (as evidenced by the above paragraph of what I like***and 3) Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation tied. 4) Acts of Service 5) Receiving gifts P.S. I think "smart" is very sexy and if that smart is packaged together with an athletic man, then I'm all in! Meet in public at a restaurant or lounge... Second date??? The possibilities are limitless!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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