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Blanche, 52
United States, Alabama, Decatur

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About Me

Let's see............... I guess I should start with what I DON'T want!! Please no smokers. Also, I won't get on your motorcycle with you, so if you want a riding partner, then I'm not the one for you. And last thing (yay!) I like to have a few drinks, but don't want to be with someone that's a very heavy drinker. Ok..... enough about what I don't want! I was divorced about 8 years ago and my ex died suddenly soon after that, so I needed to be focused on raising my children. Now my kids are "grown" and starting to live their own lives, so I'm hoping to start a new chapter in mine! I try to go for a walk or do yoga most days. I enjoy going to see movies (anything except scary), reading, playing board games, and going for a drink on the water or to hear a band. I'm happy staying in and watching some TV, but it is also fun to go hang out with friends sometimes too. Maybe for a game of pool/darts, bowling, or just have some food, drinks and conversation! I like hockey(Bruins) and football (go Patriots! )...... to watch, not play! I really,really love to get a nice meal (I love to try new foods!), a glass or two of wine, and talk. So it's very important that you and I have a lot to say to each other. I want to find that "connection" that only comes from part chemistry, and part honest conversation. Most importantly..... I want someone that is self-confident and realizes that if I am busy with work or the kids, and can not go out during the week, that it is NOT a reflection of my feelings for you- I am simply busy; someone that is assertive, but not controlling, has his own friends and interests (PLEASE have a life outside of me! It makes for a happier relationship!); doesn't mind when I wear sweats and no makeup (don't worry- this isn't a daily occurrence); someone that doesn't take himself too seriously and likes to laugh! I feel like everyone says they love to be out in the sun. I actually don't hang out at the beach during the day. Not a fan of skin cancer. I love to go to the beach at dusk or after dinner, but no baking for me! Sorry........If you are interested in meeting for a drink or dinner, please send me a note. Hope to hear from you! :) maybe go for a drink, appetizers, or dinner, at one of the riverfront restaurants.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    The GOOD life is NOT for the weak hearted, the shallow minded or the slow in Spirit. I like to laugh and have fun. I love adventure. And I'm excited about my future! I don't need another cheater.. So if you're one, please don't contact me... Please!The main thing that I am looking for in a man is the fact that he makes me laugh... I love to smile...And life is too short to not smile....Often...I find it attractive when a man lives for Jesus Christ. God has something big planned for my life, and he has someone in place to share that with me....I'm not lookin... I'm putting myself out there just in case he's here and he'll see me and just know...Now for me....I don't believe in wasting time. Minutes make up life and they fade too quickly. I'm not a shopper.I like to get what I want and be done with it.. Although I hate laziness, I think that we all need to defrag every once in a while.I like museums and a little history better than a flowery garden. However , I'd love to have an herb garden, and would love to have the time to raise a tomato or two...I think that every human needs a chance to better themselves... But, the outcome is up to them. I'll help if they help themselves. We all have a right to grab it or not..I don't think a lady should pump her own gas. Sometimes it's not an option. I realize that.....But I don't like it.I fill up every time. It's not worth stopping for a half a tank.. Although I'm not a rough it camper, who likes hiking or a bathhouse, I'd love a picnic in the park...I like grandeur. Although a few times in my life, I've had less.When it comes to the man in my life... I'm a giver. A BIG giver. And I love affection.Whatever I put my mind to do.. I can do it.I don't like stress. I feel that if you can do something about it.. Just do it! And if you can't do anything... Then don't let it bother you.I'm a very hard worker. And have excelled at everything I have ever started..I'm like the energizer bunny, keeps going and going... But now that I'm over 50... I'd like to slow down a little.I like motorcycles.. Harleys are not an easy ride... I like the Goldwing though. But I just sold my chaps! I love candlelight dinners. And soft music, and holding hands.. And touching fingertips.I love to get dressed up and smell nice. Euphoria is awesome!I think it's sexy when a man smells nice. I could almost nibble a neck at that point..I'm a wonderful cook. But I like it a tad spicy!I believe that mothers play a very important role in the life of a child. And a parent should always be there for them..I love Jesus Christ with all my heart. First and foremost even above my kids.I like to entertain guests. And I love a BBQ in the back yard on a Saturday afternoon. Sunday afternoons are for "pilin up" and you have to be from the south to understand that one! :) This much should make your head full for a minute. :)

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