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Elvia, 54
United States, Alabama, Decatur

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About Me

How can you sum up yourself in one paragraph? I' been told I'm a technicolor painting in a charcoal drawing world. I am multi-faceted. Right brain / left brain. Just as comfortable having intense deep conversations in which you completely lose track of time and space in a café, or hiking in the woods (which I try to do as much as possible) or kayaking in the ocean. I prefer the company of like minded people interested in music, art, photography, culture, philosophy, science, world issues, politics, creative, intelligent & intellectual, deep conversationalists-- and who take care of themselves physically. A big plus if you love nature and being physical in the outdoors.) While loving the outdoors later in the afternoons, I'm also a great lover of the indoor leisure arts -- like reading, conversing, writing, cooking, meditating, and lollygagging in bed on a rainy day! I've also been known to partake in the lost art of puttering. ;- You know what they say...when you make of list of what you're looking for in another person, it's good to possess those traits in yourself. No smokers or heavy drinkers, please. A Good sense of humor is a must! Laughter can get you through ALOT in life. :-) So can charm and a nice smile ;-) In LA I worked in the music biz for 25 years so I'm have a very LA / NY mentality. I'm well traveled internationally and speak Spanish and French, and have dual citizenship (US and French.)As for music, I never met a note I didn't like. And of course, there is the beauty of the sound of silence. There's definitely something to be said for the unique blissful sound of silence. Fibonacci and Pythagoras had it right -- numbers make up the sounds of the universe and all the music we create. will be back to finish this bit

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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