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Erma, 51

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About Me

This is the most awkward part so let's go.....I could ramble on and describe some very cool qualities about myself, unfortunately I am pretty partial to 'me' so you would not be getting a very objective view. What follows is a little bit about who I am searching for...I love to spend time outside and in great company. Enjoy unwinding with conversation and / or while listening to music over a cool adult beverage. I am not needy and I am not looking for anyone who is dependent on being with someone ***. I have found peace in being with myself. While I enjoy the independence, I know I am ready to connect with someone again. Hopefully that same someone can turn out to be the one I can fall for later .... I am low on maintenance and drama, hopefully you are too! I love music, very partial to rock (old to new), yet absolutely enjoy listening to any artist who can get lost in their lyrics. I enjoy good nutrition, exercise, and staying in shape. Sports like, my sons competitive baseball team, the Royals, pro football, and KU Basketball!! ;) not necessarily in that order, but close! If I could describe you, you would be fit, open, honest, fun-loving, family oriented, dog loving, wild spirit with a dash-o-rebel tossed in . . . all the while having a wicked sense of humor! You don't believe in 'soul mates' but appreciate the genuine connection two individuals can have... And you would much rather spend time kissing than finding fault, judging or blaming others... Is it possible to find that on a website and within one person?? . . . Who knows, but I'm not willing to compromise so the search is ON!I am honest, so let me start here. While looks are certainly not everything, we are on the internet so I can't get to know your personality first. With that said, I need at least an initial interest in your photo to want to know you more. I can tell you I am not a fan of responses that have no picture or lack any type of description, facial hair (although the scruffy look can be quite sexy)... nor am I a lover of large sizes. I do my best to keep myself in shape and I would expect any future partner to do the same..... I am sure that sounds stuck-up, but truly I am not ..... I just believe in being honest from the start! Thank you for taking the time to read my words. Good luck in your search!Ps...If you don't have a pic, are in search of a quick hook up, are married, or are a serial dater....move on to the next profile or website, I am not what you are looking for. A quiet evening where we can talk and get to know each other to see if there is a connection....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 24 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-31

    Laid back easy going honest girl, drama free. I had a great childhood with great parents my family means everything to me. I love to be funny and goofy. Im a hopless romantic. I want to be in a relationship with someeone who loves me as much as I love them. Im a hard worker and work full time.I graduated high school early and just finished college. I love the outdoors and being outside. I have an amazing four year old who is my life. I like to go out and have fun once and awhile, but still stay home and cuddle up to a comedy. Im an easy date Im laid back so most anything wil do. Dinner and a movie is great or something more adventurous is awesome too!

  • Julianne

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    ; playful, I love all kinds of music, love to learn new things,.Im not interested in politics ( maybe thats one of the new things i should learn) I have traveled all over the world & love other cultures .Im a beach girl that isn't apposed to visiting the mountains or desert Im very kind and thoughtful,I live a conscious lifestyle. I love adventure but am also very happy in my "nest". & am very tactile .Im looking for someone that can enjoy the journey,be present in the moment & love with all their heart,The wool to my silk ,the leather to my lace,the crazy to my calm,the hard to my soft, in other words "balance".............I love music & sounds,smells & tastes,textures of life , i find beauty and grace in almost everything,Im constantly in awe of nature & am as delighted with life as a small child ,Im looking forward to finding someone to spoil & vice versa .No drama please, only peacefull coexcistence(?) I think we could come up with something fun together, My idea would be a cozy quiet fabulous bistro dinner &.......use your imagination.

  • Carrie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Maybe our paths crossed for a reason. Who knows? This is tough carrying on about oneself, but since I am supposed to say things about me...Yikes. You can ask me about a National Title, and being published, if you are so inclined. I am a Mosiac artist for fun, and employed full time as a showroom manager. I like to design greeting cards and work on my tiny, little house. Though it may not appear so, am very down to earth. I have just been graced with great opportunities for accomplishment. I have a blog. I know...I am interested in many things, and love people. I enjoy all food. I do appreciate fine and pure food and have reviewed many restaurants. Some people call me a foodie, but to me that has a lame undertone...lolIf you have read this far- that holds great weight for me. Of course, there should be an attraction, but I am in it for the heart, as that is very important to me. I think men with integrity are few and far between, but I know they are out there. Luckily. Let me add that a man who is respectful of women is very attractive. Confidence goes a long way, as well. I would like to mention that I recognize and appreciate a good sense of humor and a quick wit. I am often told that my sense of humor is intact. People regularly tell me that I am funny, and I would like to beleive that to be true. So, yes, there will be a lot of smiles going on. Evolved humans are so darn interesting, as well as those that can resolve issues and communicate effectively. I prefer order to chaos, but am not fanatical in any way. I am not fond of a downright dirty environment, but I am not bothered by clutter. Sometimes life and fun get in the way of having an orderly household, and I get that. I like the serene feeling that tidy offers, but sometimes we all just do our best. I go with live and let live. I like being home, and I can actually cook and enjoy it. However, I like being out often as well, and enjoy all types of activities; or just a nice conversation can be very engaging.; coupled with an indication of the lives we have led. Meet! It really is inconsequential, as I bring the good times with me. It does not matter where we go, or what we do. What matters, is that we just arrange to meet when we can, and not carry on endlessly over *** it requires an act of Congress to get together for the first time, then it has little success attached to it. If you are just sport fishing, reload the bait and press on. Past me. If you hate your mother, than this may not be a match...all circumstances considered. LDR: I know that can work for some, but really, if you live far away, reality is: I can't relocate for years, due to my 17 year old son, so if you are locked into that place, chances are there is not much of a chance. I am counting on you to call that one. Please be realistic and honest with yourself, and me... sorry, but the LDR has too many variables working against it. Ok, with that out of the way, I hope this finds you smiling. There is one saying in life that I have always kept in the forefront:"One thing you always know, is you never know." Please do not decide what I may or may not like as you just may be wrong, and could be pleasantly surprised, quite to the contrary. I do not let fear dictate my decisions, and laugh and smile daily. My smiles are not in short supply, and neither are the opportunities to do so. This transulates well to all of those around me, and those exposed to the fun and humor seem to like the grittiness of it all. Things are edgy in a good kind of way. It is not for the faint of heart, and neither is the art that I create. I have nothing to hide, and would not be able to do so if I tried. Besides, I am not that person. I can tell you this: I do not measure my life by the breaths that I take, but the moments that have taken my breath away. What lies before us, and what lies behind us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. What was it that you were thinking about asking me? Ask away as long as it is appropriate and respectful. Of course a gentleman knows what I am talking about. Those reloading the bait...not so much...I am just saying...

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