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Erma, 51
United States, South Carolina, Aiken

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About Me

This is the most awkward part so let's go.....I could ramble on and describe some very cool qualities about myself, unfortunately I am pretty partial to 'me' so you would not be getting a very objective view. What follows is a little bit about who I am searching for...I love to spend time outside and in great company. Enjoy unwinding with conversation and / or while listening to music over a cool adult beverage. I am not needy and I am not looking for anyone who is dependent on being with someone ***. I have found peace in being with myself. While I enjoy the independence, I know I am ready to connect with someone again. Hopefully that same someone can turn out to be the one I can fall for later .... I am low on maintenance and drama, hopefully you are too! I love music, very partial to rock (old to new), yet absolutely enjoy listening to any artist who can get lost in their lyrics. I enjoy good nutrition, exercise, and staying in shape. Sports like, my sons competitive baseball team, the Royals, pro football, and KU Basketball!! ;) not necessarily in that order, but close! If I could describe you, you would be fit, open, honest, fun-loving, family oriented, dog loving, wild spirit with a dash-o-rebel tossed in . . . all the while having a wicked sense of humor! You don't believe in 'soul mates' but appreciate the genuine connection two individuals can have... And you would much rather spend time kissing than finding fault, judging or blaming others... Is it possible to find that on a website and within one person?? . . . Who knows, but I'm not willing to compromise so the search is ON!I am honest, so let me start here. While looks are certainly not everything, we are on the internet so I can't get to know your personality first. With that said, I need at least an initial interest in your photo to want to know you more. I can tell you I am not a fan of responses that have no picture or lack any type of description, facial hair (although the scruffy look can be quite sexy)... nor am I a lover of large sizes. I do my best to keep myself in shape and I would expect any future partner to do the same..... I am sure that sounds stuck-up, but truly I am not ..... I just believe in being honest from the start! Thank you for taking the time to read my words. Good luck in your search!Ps...If you don't have a pic, are in search of a quick hook up, are married, or are a serial dater....move on to the next profile or website, I am not what you are looking for. A quiet evening where we can talk and get to know each other to see if there is a connection....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Music
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