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Leta, 55
United States, South Carolina, Aiken

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About Me

The most powerful feature a man can have is plenty of masculine energy. Not that he power lifts.....he just knows who he is, what he wants and when to speak his mind. With kindness.I'm just a good woman looking for a good man. .....I can be silly, serious, witty, funny, complex, simple, a conversationalist, analytical (I like puzzles), good at games (not the relationship variety), very curious, intelligent, handy, hard working and organized. Equally right- and left-brained – love creativity, the arts and spontaneity.Always planning (not waiting) for the next big adventure in life. Love the mountains, the beach, photography, writing, music, gardening, antiques and restoring old stuff. Hot air ballooning puts me into a trance.I'm uncomfortable around people who like us to know they have money. It's not having the money, it's how folks allow it to define them. Pros and cons to each. I like the idea of living at a slow pace and visiting the crowded city when I need a fix of humanity. I do miss some of what cities have to offer: coffee shops, theaters, book stores, farmers markets, live music, museums and plenty of restaurant choices. This isn't to say I'm ready for full-time city life - even if it were an exotic locale. I’m open to relocating, so long as it's to a warm climate. Maybe another country? An island? (jk).I just finished restoring a tiny ***year- I know the business end of a hammer. I admire men who embrace old-fashioned values and who still believe honor and integrity count for something. I appreciate men with good business sense and common sense. I think men who can cry are sexy. Men at ease with themselves are great company. Curious men make good conversationalists. Men who buy me power tools for my birthday are paying attention :D Need alone time? Sure. Want to hang with the guys? Not a problem. Wanna throw every blanket and pillow in the house on the living room floor and watch movies all day? I'd like that :)I've found no chemistry with timid, unsure men who lack confidence and have found little success in their life. If he doesn't know the difference between "your" and "you're," well.....I'd probably pick on him. Sorry. I like men who express themselves well on paper. Pheromones are highly underrated. Clean, masculine-smelling men make me melt.I'll challenge you, appreciate and admire you, and do all I can to make sure every day has at least one exceptional moment! Surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Salsa English Japanese Korean Soccer / Football
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