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Valarie, 24
United States, North Carolina, Statesville

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I like to draw(good at), play sports and listening to various kinds of music, especially alternative rock, house, blues and metal. I enjoy reading classic novels, newspapers, political magazines and just reading in general. I like writing fictional stories as well. I enjoy traveling, and I would love to travel around the world. I'm an open-minded person, and I am willing to try new things. I'm also independent, creative, individualistic, intelligent, and easy going . I'm an introvert, and I can be quiet at first. But once you get to know me, I become more outgoing. I'm looking for a guy who is going to college, has graduated from college, or has a decent paying job that he is passionate about and enjoys doing. I am a recent college grad with a psychology degree. I plan on going to graduate school or a training school for occupatonal therapy or to be a dental hygienist. As of right now, I'm thinking about working for a human resource job or some other job that is somewhat related to my degree and to enjoy life.Please, don't message me if you're looking for a one night stand. I'm not that kind of girl. I like a guy who is intelligent, creative, respects women,likes various kinds of music, knows how to treat a woman, ambitious, kind, independent, individualistic, sophisticated, down to earth, not needy, not controlling, likes sports, has appreciation for the arts, is not afraid to show his feminine side once in a while, is a little bit gregarious, a little bit quiet and is attractive. I know it's unrealistic for someone to have all of these but having most of these qualities would be nice.I'm an abstract thinker who likes to think outside the box. I like to think beyond what school has taught me. I'm more self-directed and have learned more on my own without always the guidance of a structured *** to look at all of the possiblities of ideas. Black and white thinking is too limiting. I have learned through experience that stereotypes of people and things are not always true. I think it's just a way of separating people into categories and labeling them without getting to know them first. I like to think before I act. I judge a person's character rather than their exterior, but we all know looks and what a person wears are important to a certain extent. I'm not going to lie about that.I'm more insightful about my outlook on life. It has helped me understand things better and has given more clarity of things around me through my observations. I'm not into organized religions, but I believe there is something out there watching over us. I'm not too girly, and I'm not too tomboyish. I believe balance and moderation are both keys to a happy life. I am strong-willed, and I will stand up for myself when needed. I am not a push over. Education and having a decent work ethic are essential in today's economy if you want to make it anywhere. I'm not an overachiever, but I'm not a slacker either. I was once a perfectionist who has learned the hard way that it is not achievable and will only lead to disappointment, unhappiness, and it deteriorates your physical, emotional, and mental health. I also have a preference for slim, slender, or toned built guys. I think it's important to find someone who you're compatible with(start out as friends, similar interests, similar personality, etc.) and someone who can complement me(someone a little more outgoing than me, teach me things I don't know, etc.).I would love to travel to more places and see what's out there. I enjoy cuddling and being indoors too. I also give good back massages. It's my expertise.I'm also a sucker for guys who play guitar. That's enough about me, tell me about you. :) I think going to a coffee joint is a good place for a first date to get to know each other. It's what I prefer, but I'm open to other suggestions too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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