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Bertha, 27

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About Me

I'm a just a woman looking for a connection, whatever that may be. Eventually I'd like to settle down but I'm in no hurry. Ive been through a lot over the last year and a half. I've made mistakes in my life but I won't be making them again. No regrets. Mistakes are a learning tool. I've endured. I'm stronger, more independent and capable than I ever thought. I'm a mother first and that will never change. Most of my strength, efforts and energy goes to my lil man. In return, he gives me everlasting love. Fair trade? I think so. Unfortunately people like me are often taken advantage of. I'm genuine, sensitive at times, and I have a passion to help people. I'm a lover in every sense of the word. I take care of my mans mind, body and soul. It's about give and take though. I'm tired of being the only one giving. So I keep my guard up. I'm too old for games. I'm tired of taking care of men. I'm tired of the lies. I'm tired of them not being ready. I'm ready to get serious. I'm ready to build a bigger family. So here it is. I'm laying it all out. If u think u can handle this than u know what to do. ONLY mature, respectful men need apply. One love.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Neva

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    *LOCALS ONLY PLEASE...It's probably easier if I tell you my real deal breakers...just trying to keep it real....1. If you also have full time roommates, then it will be very hard to have any kind of relationship and since we would have to go out every time we see each other, it would be a very expensive one too.2. I don't live alone and almost never invite anyone over so if you live 45 min or more away, I really can't date you. We wouldn't see each other very often.3. I'm not going to send nude pics to strangers. I promise. I do understand that there are a ton of men that adore huge boobs but if we don't have a relationship then you will never get more pics. lol4. I have no time to chat (IM) with men that live too far away. I understand that some of you just want friends (or again, swap pics {won't happen} but I have a very busy life and am almost never online to IM. I'm really sorry. PROS: I am VERY funny! I have a very good, very stable job. I'm a real people person; never met a stranger in my life...will talk to anyone that looks at me. I am very affectionate, ask the guys at work (I'm a hugger)! LOL Lets also start with the fact that I would rather not shock you in person, my bra size is a 44N...if you are a man that thinks "more than a handful is a waste"...then I am NOT the person for you. I'm also a true BBW so if you don't like us, it's ok not to chat. :)I tend to gravitate to the clean cut, all American guy with a decent education (I like them smart, what can I say) ...and one that's polite. I am looking for a serious relationship because I've done WAY too much dating in the last year...or two...or three (LOL). My friends often ask why I still keep going out; but I figure that if I want to find someone that I'm really interested in then I can't stop dating...I'll never find anybody that way. Right??? So I do go out but I really do want you to chat with me (either on the phone, text, or IM) so that we can see how we mesh. If we both like what we hear, then I usually go out pretty quickly. I guess I am in a hurry to find the guy that I'm best suited for. I wish you all the best of luck in finding what you are hunting for (since most of you guys want something different)! I'm really sorry! Also remember that I'm a true BBW (so if you don't like bigger girls, I'm definitely not for you...)!

  • Nettie

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I work as a cardiac tech .... Have amazing friends a great family . Idk anything else you wanna know just ask !I'm sorry but this has to be added .... Please don't bother if :- you can't spell basic words .... - you have a photo that looks like u went to glamour shots ... It's not that deep - you have kids .... Sorry been there done that deal breaker - if you message more than 3 times before I respond ... You won't ever get a response bc I have already added u to the crazy pile - if you have a barbed wire arm band tattoo .... Your too much of a bad ass for me lol- if your hair is longer than mine- if your beard is longer that Jesus's - if you don't think girls should curse ... Wrong ****ing girl ... Sorry ! - if inappropriate comments make you uncomfortable .... You wouldn't last 10 mins in a room w me and my friends ... Sensitive men need not apply- if you are making duck face in any of ur pics .... Ur a dude ... Get a grip - if you don't speak English .... Do you honestly think I'm going to try to translate ?- if your profile says your 5'8" but your more like 5'5"- if you don't have a pic ... Saying "I want people to get to know me first" when all I hear is "I'm not good looking but I'm hoping that I can get u to like me before you realize that" .... Bottom line everyone on here is clicking on profiles based on pictures alone ... So you are just as shallow as the next person

  • Henrietta

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    We all seem to be seeking 'the one'? I hope to make some friends on the way! I believe in treating people with respect, in doing so i won't lie about who i am, please don't lie about who you are. I have a sense of humor and a value system, I value relationships with people more than things. Don't be shy, say hello..... talk to you soon I hope. Coffee and chitchat..... A walk on the beach at sunset, listening to live music, checking out an art show.

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