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Bertha, 27

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About Me

I'm a just a woman looking for a connection, whatever that may be. Eventually I'd like to settle down but I'm in no hurry. Ive been through a lot over the last year and a half. I've made mistakes in my life but I won't be making them again. No regrets. Mistakes are a learning tool. I've endured. I'm stronger, more independent and capable than I ever thought. I'm a mother first and that will never change. Most of my strength, efforts and energy goes to my lil man. In return, he gives me everlasting love. Fair trade? I think so. Unfortunately people like me are often taken advantage of. I'm genuine, sensitive at times, and I have a passion to help people. I'm a lover in every sense of the word. I take care of my mans mind, body and soul. It's about give and take though. I'm tired of being the only one giving. So I keep my guard up. I'm too old for games. I'm tired of taking care of men. I'm tired of the lies. I'm tired of them not being ready. I'm ready to get serious. I'm ready to build a bigger family. So here it is. I'm laying it all out. If u think u can handle this than u know what to do. ONLY mature, respectful men need apply. One love.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carolina

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    The poem quoted below speaks profoundly to me, and for me. I can say this, now, at this point in my life, only because it has taken me quite a while to get here. I do not regret one minute, the men, the years, or the decisions (good or bad) that have gotten me here—now. They were all steps along the way which have not only enabled me to understand the depth of this poem, but have created the ability for me to implement its meaning into my daily life. It represents how I try to live my life in every moment (when I can remember to do so).“To know that I am no-thing, that is wisdom. To know that I am everything, that is love. And between these two, my life moves.”el bistamiBut, seriously, I am not this serious. Just a deeper aspect of myself. I live to laugh. Love to laugh.I am open, self deprecating, and live with integrityI need to laugh at myself daily. And to create all sorts of movement in my life....I try to accept all that life has to offer on a daily basiswith courage, compassion, and kindness as best I can. However, I do miss the world terribly. Working diligently (and at times distractedly) on recreating a new life at home for myself. Taking the time to figure it all out while continuing to work with children in one capacity or another.I sometimes contradict myself because it ultimately expose oneself to finding your true inner desire by facing your own contradictions you didn't know you held? But I do have solid integrity and am grounded for the most part.I am physically active and love to hike, bike, walk, roller-blade, and play a lot of soccer when I am fit. When I am working on getting fit (again) I do all the same stuff daily-- just a lot less vigorously. I also do yoga and pilates regularly because I love how they feel. I need to move daily in one form or another, without it I would go mad. But, I am no longer a fanatic.My life is constantly changing, as it should. I try to remain open everyday to what life brings and work to take action to bring what I want into my life.Looking for love and a LTR if I can ever find that right mix of a guy at the perfect time?? It has proven elusive for far too long.I am spiritual and practice kindness to self and others daily.... Coffee, drinks, a walk, or dinner...or any combination thereof.

  • Tisha

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I would consider myself fun and outgoing. By profession I\'m a teacher. I absolutely love my work. It would be soooo refreshing to meet just a nice, easy-going and smart person. Are you the one?

  • Melva

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I hold intelligence in high regard. I have a firm grasp on who I am and what I believe in, and am looking for the same in a partner. I am a Christian, and a Republican (both by practice, the leaders these days seem to have strayed a bit, but I digress).My hobbies include shooting, reading, researching topics I'm interested in, and intellectual discussion. I also like making my home a nice place to be; I sew, knit, quilt and crochet. I think the most welcoming smell in the world is the smell of fresh bread or cookies baking in the oven. I would like to find someone who shares the same values, and a few of the same interests. What do I find sexy? Its not a washboard stomach, having all that sparkles (stuff), or even a full head of hair. What I find sexy is a man who treats his lady like gold, someone who puts their faith and family above all else, someone who has convictions and isn't afraid to stand up for what he believes in. I find that I am drawn to people with stronger personalities, and who are goal orientated. I hope to give all the love and respect in the world to one man who possesses those qualities.And, if he likes to snuggle, that's always a plus :-).

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