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Judy, 44

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Ok so this is me: You get what you see. Authentic. Fun. Easy going. Independent, Confident and Free Spirited. I have great girlfriends that I spend a great deal of time with. They have gotten me through the worst and best times of my life and they will get a chance to give their opinions on you :) Don't be nervous! You will love them all. I have had my own business for twelve years as an interior designer. I love it. It is my passion and its where I spend A LOT of my energy...that is...AFTER I am the mom of two beautiful teenage daughters. They keep me on my toes and they are reason I get up every day. You must love girls if you will be part of this house :) We do have a boy... My little Shitzu. He is not always stranger friendly but a good judge of character! My friends would say that I am loyal, a confidant, strong and determined. I know how to have fun. I have been referred to as the energizer bunny because I am usually the last one standing. They also call me "DJ Ne" because I love all kinds of music and I am the girl with the ipod :) I love to dance!I LOVE to cook. I want a man that will cook with me. Not just eat! I love good wine. I love fine dining. I love entertaining. The parties, the barbeques, the get togethers...are almost always at my house. I need a guy that loves that too. I almost forgot! I LOVE COFFEE! It's a must in the morning! Grande Latte with 3 Splenda...or...at home it's the Keurig! If you are a coffe drinker...you know it!I love the sun, beach and water...laying out, boating, a picnic, jet skis. I am not very athletic (i was not blessed with that gene even though I try) but I love to watch and I will be right in the middle of it all. I just won't be the star and I am SO fine with that. I would really love to learn to golf and if you have the patience to teach me...well you just might be the one :) I love adventure. I love to travel. I LOVE rollercoasters even though I am scared to death! I won't be skiing in any type of environment (because I suck at it!As for you: well...I hope you are tall, smart and witty. If you can't make me laugh and if we can't laugh together...it's not gonna work. I hope you love to sit and have wine with me and have long conversations about anything and everything. I hope you have a great family and a set of friends that you can't wait to introduce me to. I hope you are passionate about your career but not overly obsessed. You know how to have fun on the weekend. I hope you are honest and kind and can be open with your feelings. I hope you bring something to the table that you can teach me. I want to learn more, experience things I've never experienced, and just grow mentally and spiritually with a man I respect. Is this all too deep and too much to ask and expect? I hope not. Cuz I am setting my stardards high and you should too... First dates...I prefer to leave it up to him however, to be honest..drinks or appetizers or something impromtu is best when meeting someone blindly. The initial meeting is just to be somewhere comfortable to be able to talk and get to know one another and see if there is a connection. Stress free. If that meeting goes well then lets start planning the fun stuff!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Myrtle

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    Well what can I say about me, it's hard to describe your self in a little box!I am a very outgoing, happy girl. I speak my mind ( which can get me in to trouble sometimes) but my parents raised me to speak my mind and fight for what I believe in! I have a huge heart and wear it on my sleeve. I love my friends and family very much. You must be a family person or we will never get along! It's the summer months when not working you can find me rollerblading around the seawall big passion mine! I love to travel and hope to one day see alot of the world it would be a bonus if you also like to travel. I will be honest about this I do not have my license or a car at the moment as I have anxiety about driving but I am actually in the process of getting over that fear and getting my license! If you wanna know more ask! Happy fishing to all!PS -IM NOT LOOKING FOR FRIENDS WITH BENEIFIT , SEX BUDDY OR WHATEVER YOU WANNA CALL IT IF YOU ARE THE MOVE ON!! Depends on the person I suppose!

  • Flossie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Generally men are physical creatures, and past profiles has proven that most of you don't read these anyway.....so....... :) Here it is in a nut shell......I am not possessive, jealous or demanding. I don't want your money, house, business or man card. What I do want is laughs, fun, cuddles, passion, openness, HONESTY, and friendship that possibliy could lead to more. I am finally ready to move to the next phase is this amazing life journey and share some great times with. WARNING: I am NOT photogetic at all, and have been told that I look better in person... not a line of bs, just being direct and hopefully it will get you to be open minded. lol lol If nothing else, a face to face meeting allows you to scope out the package...hehehehehIf you want to know more, just ask. But, gentlemen.... before you ask any question to any woman, think first. Is it something you would like your sister, mother, aunt, daughter, best friend or grandma to hear? In other words, if you wouldn't say it or want it said to them, then show the ladies here that same respect. It will go a long way. Generally I am tyically attracted to tall, average to athletic built men, clean shaven (a bit of scruff is okay), not a big fan of facial hair, sorry, not a fan of peircings, or full body tatoos. I know what I am attracted to just as you know what you like, and I make no apologies for it. This is real grown up life, and the time of BS and deceit is gone. I have no desire to spend endless amounts of time typing away on a keyboard. If there is an attraction, then that is what gets people to stage ***face to face meeting. - I enjoy the simple things, and have always tried to treat people with respect and dignity. I view life as a glass full rather than a glass half empty! :)- My friends describe me as bubbly, outgoing, smart, happy, funny, thoughtful, sensitive, giving, sexy, sensual, quirky and always up for trying new things. - I am more curvy and voluptuous than average, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.- Am independent, secure, well adjusted and have buried most of my baggage in the back yard. BAGGAGE, NOT BODIES.... hehehehNow, if you think you are up to the challenge, than send a message, introduce yourself, say hi and lets meet! You never know who could be just around the corner. I prefer to meet and talk face to face rather then endless chatting, please don`t mistake that for desperation, I just don`t want to waste anyone`s time. I will say this.... a relationship with me comes with some pretty amazing perks! lolCheers for now, and happy fishing.PS: DON'T PUT ME IN YOUR FAVORITES WITHOUT SAYING HELLO AND SHOWING SOME EFFORT. I will just delete you otherwise. Once the first meet and greet is out of the way, and we've established some commonalities and a connection then as for the first date, the sky is the limit. lol lol

  • Bertha

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I'm a just a woman looking for a connection, whatever that may be. Eventually I'd like to settle down but I'm in no hurry. Ive been through a lot over the last year and a half. I've made mistakes in my life but I won't be making them again. No regrets. Mistakes are a learning tool. I've endured. I'm stronger, more independent and capable than I ever thought. I'm a mother first and that will never change. Most of my strength, efforts and energy goes to my lil man. In return, he gives me everlasting love. Fair trade? I think so. Unfortunately people like me are often taken advantage of. I'm genuine, sensitive at times, and I have a passion to help people. I'm a lover in every sense of the word. I take care of my mans mind, body and soul. It's about give and take though. I'm tired of being the only one giving. So I keep my guard up. I'm too old for games. I'm tired of taking care of men. I'm tired of the lies. I'm tired of them not being ready. I'm ready to get serious. I'm ready to build a bigger family. So here it is. I'm laying it all out. If u think u can handle this than u know what to do. ONLY mature, respectful men need apply. One love.

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