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Elaine, 44

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About Me

What you see is what you get. I may not be the most gorgeous girl on this site...but I think I'm cute...and I may not be a health nut or spend my life exercising...and I have a stomach that I'm not crazy about but if you take the time...you'll find that my heart is bigger than any other part of me and I'm worth getting to know. I'm real...honest...caring...loving...sincere....good hearted....sentimental...down to earth..level headed...have common sense...intelligent...family oriented...can carry on intelligent conversations or silly/flirty ones....i like going out to dinner and movies or other activities...also like to stay in with my guy...not into bars ..don't like to dance but I'll slow dance with the right guy...I don't play games...and i wont chase anyone who diesnt want to be chased...i want someone who will take the effort to chase me more than i chase him...communication is the key to building a strong foundation in a relationship...that should come first ..sex is great but it should be a bonus not the only thing you have in common...I've recently started going back to church and would like to find someone who shares the same beliefs as me and will go with me....I'm not a primper...I don't spend hours getting ready to go places but I will look good when we go...I'm just looking for a nice...attractive guy...I spent 26 years of my life with someone I didn't find attractive...so this time around I want to find someone I'm completely attracted to and can't keep my eyes and hands off of...lol...maybe that's you ;) My ideal first date would be somewhere, where we could talk and get to know each other better. Some place quaint...like the taco shack...Or we could go for a walk on the beach and bring a picnic lunch (Publix subs are the best ;) )with us, and just walk and talk, and then stop and eat as we watch the sun go down. Or, you could surprise me with something you like to do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Penelope

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Before you read too far, just wanted to note that I have sole custody of my son, and he is with me full time. If that doesn't faze you, read on, the next sentence might, haha! Here we go...Single mom to a 10-year-old son. He and I are quite the team and have tons of fun. That said, there are times when I need to escape, and think I am ready to step out on a date! Honestly, I'm a lil' scared at the prospect of trying again, so I prefer to treat this as simply meeting new friends. I work very hard, and my son, he comes first, so it leaves little time to relax and converse. But I'm willing to try if you're not certifiably crazy, still curious about life, and not always lazy. As for me, I am impatient, tenacious, and slightly neurotic at times. Like my incessant need to make all this crap rhyme! On the flip-side, however, I am loving and kind; and a horrible liar who loves to kick back and unwind.I want someone who is passionate in all his endeavors, who is always a gentleman, quick-witted, and clever. This is just a brief outline of what I seek in a mate, and if I find him through this venue, then it has to be fate!Single dad's are welcomed and encouraged to reply. That's it for now. Thanks for reading. Bye-Bye!Update: Just to add a little more information, I have been single a long time, by choice. I have used this time to focus on my son, to grow as a woman and a mother, and to just...be. Until recently, and even still at times, I have felt that being a single parent and dating were very difficult to co-mingle, so for the most part, I chose to focus on being a mother as it was what I felt was right, and quite honestly, it was easier. That being said, I feel that now that my son is getting older, it is a little easier for me to allow myself to date without guilt. I am not looking for anything casual. Dating with children is just not the same as dating pre-children (at least not for me). I am a 44-year-old woman and mom looking for a real connection with someone who gets that at this stage of life, with children, it really is a package deal. I hope to find someone who gets me, who gets single-parenthood, who gets that in order for there to be an us, there has to be a mutual respect for our children and our respective situations. I know we are all on here searching for someone, albeit maybe for different things based on where we are in our lives. So if I am not what you are seeking, I wish you all the best on your search. Something simple like a walk in the park

  • Elise

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Caring, kind, and honest- I am an emotionally and financially stable gal looking to meet a great guy. Most people I know would describe me as intelligent, creative, sincere,easy going and straight forward. Family and faith is important to me. I love to laugh, have fun, and spend time with my kids and my dog. I enjoy music, cooking, home renovation, and community events. I am really fortunate to have a career I love- I work and play hard.I'm a hopeless romantic and while I don't need anyone to "complete" me, I would love to find a quality person to spend time with, build a friendship, and hopefully we will have a serious spark! I can be a bit shy at first but warm up quickly and am very affectionate when in a relationship. I have minimal baggage and am emotionally open. You are honest, sincere, kind, intelligent, and genuine. You are a true gentleman, have a warm smile, an easy laugh, and love to have fun. You know yourself well and communicate openly. Kid and animal friendly are a must! Not so important what we do as long as it offers a chance to get to know each other.

  • Henrietta

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    We all seem to be seeking 'the one'? I hope to make some friends on the way! I believe in treating people with respect, in doing so i won't lie about who i am, please don't lie about who you are. I have a sense of humor and a value system, I value relationships with people more than things. Don't be shy, say hello..... talk to you soon I hope. Coffee and chitchat..... A walk on the beach at sunset, listening to live music, checking out an art show.

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