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Penelope, 44
United States, New York, Far Rockaway

Offline, last seen Tue, 25 Nov 2025 17:46:23

About Me

Before you read too far, just wanted to note that I have sole custody of my son, and he is with me full time. If that doesn't faze you, read on, the next sentence might, haha! Here we go...Single mom to a 10-year-old son. He and I are quite the team and have tons of fun. That said, there are times when I need to escape, and think I am ready to step out on a date! Honestly, I'm a lil' scared at the prospect of trying again, so I prefer to treat this as simply meeting new friends. I work very hard, and my son, he comes first, so it leaves little time to relax and converse. But I'm willing to try if you're not certifiably crazy, still curious about life, and not always lazy. As for me, I am impatient, tenacious, and slightly neurotic at times. Like my incessant need to make all this crap rhyme! On the flip-side, however, I am loving and kind; and a horrible liar who loves to kick back and unwind.I want someone who is passionate in all his endeavors, who is always a gentleman, quick-witted, and clever. This is just a brief outline of what I seek in a mate, and if I find him through this venue, then it has to be fate!Single dad's are welcomed and encouraged to reply. That's it for now. Thanks for reading. Bye-Bye!Update: Just to add a little more information, I have been single a long time, by choice. I have used this time to focus on my son, to grow as a woman and a mother, and to just...be. Until recently, and even still at times, I have felt that being a single parent and dating were very difficult to co-mingle, so for the most part, I chose to focus on being a mother as it was what I felt was right, and quite honestly, it was easier. That being said, I feel that now that my son is getting older, it is a little easier for me to allow myself to date without guilt. I am not looking for anything casual. Dating with children is just not the same as dating pre-children (at least not for me). I am a 44-year-old woman and mom looking for a real connection with someone who gets that at this stage of life, with children, it really is a package deal. I hope to find someone who gets me, who gets single-parenthood, who gets that in order for there to be an us, there has to be a mutual respect for our children and our respective situations. I know we are all on here searching for someone, albeit maybe for different things based on where we are in our lives. So if I am not what you are seeking, I wish you all the best on your search. Something simple like a walk in the park

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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