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Estela, 43

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About Me

I've been here a lil while, and I've learned a few things. But 1st things 1st...yes, I have pictures. But I don't post them. I have my reasons...(Update....okay, so I added pictures)Now on to what I've learned. When you send me a message, if all you say is "Hi" or ask me how I'm doing today, I most likely will not respond. Saying something interesting, funny or witty will get my attention. If I can't be stimulated intellectually, you won't have a chance physically. I don't mean to be crude...but I have to find you mentally attractive if I'll ever be interested in meeting face to face. My interests? I love all types of music...but wont do rap. My favorites are country, alternative, and the blues. I am a health nut, and I've studied food & the human body all my life. I enjoy keeping in shape, and I have a healthy lifestyle & diet. I love to read and watch movies. And no, I don't care to read that romance trash. I prefer non-fiction....true crime & health.I have 2 beautiful children, and my world revolves around them. I share custody with their father, and he is a big part of their life. I'm not one to bring dates home. I am raising a handsome young man & a beautiful young lady...and I must lead by example.I like to go mud riding, sitting by a camp fire, riding my mountain bike, roller blading, and sitting on a porch swing. I love to cook & I take care of myself appearance wise. For now I work part-time so that I can be home when my kids need me. We MUST be friends first. If you can't be a good friend to me....I can't be your lover. Just had to throw that out there...I am a genuinely happy person. I know who I am, I know what I want, and I'm not afraid to be by myself until I find it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Roxanne

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I like wide open spaces, water, the sun, great friends..... honest conversation and lots of laughs. Absolutely, no drama...please stop already...lol. My question is " Do you like what you see when you look in the mirror?" and I am not talking about looks. That's all that matters, I know it is hard at times but I keep trying and hope everyone finds it.....Peace!!! lol A nice dinner on the grill and some good wine..........

  • Claudette

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    - Whether its a car ride up the coast for the weekend or checking out a new microbrew - its all good. I love to read historical fiction and enjoy wandering around my local library and spending Saturday morning walking to the local Coffee Bean with friends. I have a busy work and social life and I am looking for someone who has the same but wants to try to fit all the pieces together or make a mess of it all!I raise money and manage public relations for a small non- I have worked in this field for over 17 years. I am involved in the community and enjoy volunteering and attending charity events. I find the best relationships are those where the two pwople are in the same generation and have some common interests but also have difference that challenge eachother. I am looking for someone who is intelligent, focused on helping others, is happy in their own skin and looking for someone to share their life.After a couple months on meetville I have a few comments:I am really interested in dating men who are educated, have a job that pays money, and are between the ages of 38 and 52. I do not have a "Daddy" complex and do not want to be someone's sugar mamma. That being said, if you are 35 or 53 and have your sh*ttogether I might be interested. I am really looking for someone to have a relatinship with so if you live outside of LA dating will be difficult and I will probably not write to you and I am not looking to just "hook-up". If you are 62 years old and have listed your age as 45 because your friends tell you don't look a day over ***get new friends. If you lie about your age / career from the very beginning it is really hard to believe anything else you have said. Because I recently had a very disturbing incident with a man who showed up for a date who was not the person in his picture and 20 years older than the picture he posted, I will not provide my phone number / personal *** am comfortable that you are the person you claim to be. If you have no picture or only one picture, I will probably not write back until you update you profile. It is sad that I have to be so direct but unfortunately I have felt that my safety has been placed in jeopardy by people who are dilusional.

  • Elaine

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    What you see is what you get. I may not be the most gorgeous girl on this site...but I think I'm cute...and I may not be a health nut or spend my life exercising...and I have a stomach that I'm not crazy about but if you take the time...you'll find that my heart is bigger than any other part of me and I'm worth getting to know. I'm real...honest...caring...loving...sincere....good hearted....sentimental...down to earth..level headed...have common sense...intelligent...family oriented...can carry on intelligent conversations or silly/flirty ones....i like going out to dinner and movies or other activities...also like to stay in with my guy...not into bars ..don't like to dance but I'll slow dance with the right guy...I don't play games...and i wont chase anyone who diesnt want to be chased...i want someone who will take the effort to chase me more than i chase him...communication is the key to building a strong foundation in a relationship...that should come first ..sex is great but it should be a bonus not the only thing you have in common...I've recently started going back to church and would like to find someone who shares the same beliefs as me and will go with me....I'm not a primper...I don't spend hours getting ready to go places but I will look good when we go...I'm just looking for a nice...attractive guy...I spent 26 years of my life with someone I didn't find attractive...so this time around I want to find someone I'm completely attracted to and can't keep my eyes and hands off of...lol...maybe that's you ;) My ideal first date would be somewhere, where we could talk and get to know each other better. Some place quaint...like the taco shack...Or we could go for a walk on the beach and bring a picnic lunch (Publix subs are the best ;) )with us, and just walk and talk, and then stop and eat as we watch the sun go down. Or, you could surprise me with something you like to do.

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