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Latisha
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I have pretty much come to the conclusion that this thing they call "DATING" is for sans kids singles or non-custodial parents. Well, I guess it depends on your situation and whether or not you separate your adult life from your child's life. I am one of those mommies who is not wanting to be in that "This is your uncle this week!" category. If you happen to be a single dad who doesn't welcome your children into the revolving door of your love life then CONGRATULATIONS for putting your kids first and being the rare exception to the rule. Nothing wrong with introducing your kids to a significant other when the time is right or the situation is appropriate. But "Hey kids, this is Bambi and she is spending the weekend with us" just seems a bit tacky to me. But there are a few overnight visitations with either grandma or dad. And mommy does get a bit of me time now that she is in preschool for 4 afternoons a week. So I guess I could start scheduling lunch dates or mid-afternoon coffee house dates M-Th say sometime between 12:***pm. I am trying to get used to having this me time, but find that 3 hours goes by in a ***, that is my big disclaimer as it seems nearly impossible for me to be available to date at the drop of a hat. It takes some planning in advance to make sure it jibes with the visitation schedule or I can find a sitter. But for right now I think it is better to put myself in that boring, just looking for friends for now category. I am just being honest and not going to blow any smoke up anyone's butt. I am really pretty set in my ways and know what I like and don't like. I like going out to try new hobbies, experiencing new cuisine or checking out a band I've never heard before. I don't mind the bar scene now and again to do karaoke or listen to live music. I would even like to do one of those trivia nights. But I rarely drink these days due to finding I get a tad more tipsy than I would like. I like walks in the park, bowling, going to the movies, shooting pool and visiting art museums. Aside from playing in the park with my kid, dancing, the occasional aquacize class and tennis just for fun I rarely get my heart rate elevated for optimal fitness. Just not much of an exercise enthusiast, but know I should force myself to do more physical activity. I am a couch potato most evenings, and should just say In a Relationship with HBO as my *** Yes, I admit I am a bit of social media whore. But wean off what I call the facecrastination.So if all that brutal honesty hasn't bored the crap out of you, then please do hit me up for the initial e-mail conversation and "Let's Do Coffee" sorta deal. Late morning or early afternoon to meet up at a cafe or pub. Then we can do something fun and even active like a stroll thru a park or perhaps bowling. Tennis? I can't play very well, but like just the back and forth over the net. I love going to the movies, but that isn't the best for a first date as you can't really talk. Art museum would be a great first date as well.
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Sandy
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I prefer to grow old in a loving relationship but am not afraid to spend my life alone. I\'m not interested in finding just "anyone" so I\'m not alone, but in finding one that I long to be with.
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Lavonne
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Hello,Me: I'm a sexy vivacious woman who laughs, jokes around and loves life. I'm not skinny nor care to be, I love my curves but I do work out ( when I can ) and takes care of myself. I'm a girl and will always look, smell and act like one! lol. I don't look or act my age, in a good way. I'm most comfortable in my Harley boots or flip flops, a tank top and jeans. I'm not a couch potato, I like to go out and do things! I'm not a 'vanilla' girl, if you don't know what that means....google!You: Must be bigger and taller than me, you have to be able to handle me ;) I don't want to be able to beat you up! lol You love to ride with a beautiful woman behind you...ME! Has a sense of humor, not an alcoholic but likes to party. A job is a must! Takes care of themselves, cleans up nice and smells good too! A real motorcycle man, not a weekend rider unless that's the only time you have to ride....but we can work on that lol. A warrior that treats his girl like a princess.Take a look at my interests, it'll give you some clues about me. I'm not going to throw everything out there because...well....that's what dates are for!Also, due to people not really reading my profile and not having the same interests as I or sending rude nasty messages, if I don't answer you back please don't take it to heart. I know what I'm looking for and will answer you back if I'm interested. I'm sure there is someone out there for you. Good Luck!I also come from a family of military members, different branches. If I drop a note to say thank you for your service I don't expect anything in return. I am a die-hard Marine Corps mom and am grateful for those that are or had served.