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Hilda, 43
United States, North Carolina, Burlington

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Where to begin... I have two girls, 17 and 13. They keep me pretty busy although my oldest is now at college so I only have one to keep up with. It was a difficult decision but I felt I really needed a change and I was hoping to further my career. So far, no regrets. I've discovered it's a little harder to meet people and establish a circle of friends as you get older. I grew up in the country, was a bit of a tom boy with a wild streak as a kid. I've learned to tone down the wild streak. lolIt's important to me to stay in shape and I try to get to the gym at least 3 or 4 times a week if I can. Relaxing usually consists of some TV time, a movie, a good book, going to the beach if it's nice out, hanging with friends.Some of my favorite things...going to concerts, sitting around a fire, being with people that make me laugh, adventure, thunderstorms, snuggling, sleeping in, long weekends, beach vacations. Most of my friends don't have the same taste in music as me. My favorite are bands like Three Days Grace, Seether, Nickelback, 3 Doors Down.& newer stuff too. but I like a wide variety and love to hear live music. For the most part I really enjoy my work. It can get intense but I don't "bring it home". There are times I need to talk about it so I hope you're a good listener. Don't worry I won't drone on for hours. I like being around positive, upbeat people - no time or energy for drama and pessimism. I believe for a relationship to be good...it should be built on trust mutual respect and good communication. That being said - nothing beats chemistry - it's just got to be there. Yes...the pictures are recent.It's hard to write about yourself...I'm much more interesting in person. lolWhat I'm looking for: A man who conducts himself with integrity and confidence; self-confident but not arrogant, willing to take the initiative but not be controlling, has a great sense of humor ( can tolerate my sarcasm/wit and give it back); is supportive and "has my back" so to speak. Has their own interests but shares some of mine - I'm not the clingy type. If this sounds like you...message me :) Thanks for reading! Good luck with your search Something low key - see if we have any connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Internet Browsing Skiing Chinese French
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