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I am a simple down to earth kinda girl who appreciates the small things .love to laugh (even at myself at times)which means I can be a dork at times..lol I once fell up the stairs at work and I never laughed so hard at myself, I mean, who does that right? ha ha.Family and friends are very important to me. like to try new things and venture out.I am very spontaneous. I like good conversation but also to enjoy quiet time. A good movie and snuggleing is a nice way to spend time with someone you like. I like snowball fights in the winter and water fights in the summer.Win or lose it's all good lol I am not looking for games.So please don't waste my time or yours. Respect and honesty are extremely important to me. I am very loyal and expect the same. I can honestly say I have never cheated in my life,I am a firm believer that if you have to venture elsewhere then what you have is not working and tell the person you are with and move on. I like hockey,and hot chicken wings I like to cook and bake. I love to dance and been told I am very good at it.It is a passion of mine..I am far from materialistic and like myself whether I am in sweats or dressed up.Would like a guy to appreciate that too. I'm confident that I am a good person with a big heart and fun to be around.Looking for someone who is sincere,trustworthy and passionate with a great sense of humor.i have 3 children.2 are grown and very independent and my daughter.she is 10 and lives with me.So if you are not into kids im prolly not the one for you.She has a dad who loves her very much so im not looking for a daddy. No drama here been divorced 3 years now.hoping to fiind a guy knows what he wants and appreciates when he hasi it. Anywhere where we can laugh and be ourselves.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dolores

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Well here I am yet again....and I am hopeful that things will turn out better for me this time around. I wish people could just be honest, would make things so much easier.I guess you could say that being on here before has taught me a few things about you fellas and I suppose I should go ahead and put it out there. For starters, NO....I'm not on here scouting you guys out looking for a husband, I had one for 22 years and I'm not ready for that again. I also don't want to be someone's piece on the side while you're looking for something better. If you don't think I'm your cup of tea then please leave me alone. I've found myself in that spot before and it's no fun, especially since I have a habit of investing in people. And finally, I DON'T SHARE so if you're married, please pass me by because one thing I am not is a home wrecker, I just can't do that. Sooo....if anybody is still left reading after that little bit of business i'll tell a little bit about myself. I started dating my future ex-husband when I was 17, married him at 20, had a daughter at 23 and divorced at 42. I had a good life but things change and people grow apart, we are still friends and that pretty much sums up my marriage. No regrets at all.To best sum ME up, well......I'm a flip-flop and shorts kind of girl, no prissy high maintenance here but that's not to say I don't like to get dressed up an go out some. I'm a pretty laid back go with the flow kind of girl.....I don't like drama, I don't like liars and I don't like being played for a fool. I am a loyal friend almost to a fault and I love my friends, would do anything for them. I dont really know why but the majority of my closest friends are fellas, that's the way is has been since way back in the school days. The "cool friend that's a girl" and not the "cool girlfriend" It is what it is. I work...I work a lot actually. My "real" It's pretty interesting stuff. I also have a "fun" job on the weekends. It's long hours but I like it and it pays the bills....plus it's working with family. Since I'm on the subject of money i'll just say this.....I make my own, may not be a lot, but I earn it, pay my way and try and live within my means. Im NOT on the hunt for someone to take care of me, I CAN and DO take care of myself. And to be fair to you fellas, I don't know which one I have heard more of...."she didn't look anything like her picture" or "she wanted me to pay her bills".....some women have no shame and for the record, we're not ALL like that.....just sayin. And something else i've found....what IS the big deal if a girl a wants to treat a guy to dinner or pay every now and then? Is it such a rare thing? I mean really....It's not bribery or anything else, just a small way of showing someone that I care about them...guess I'm missing something here but it's just the way I am. I'm a lover and wear my heart on my sleeve, if I care for you I want to show it. I love simple and it's the simple things in life that mean the most to me. Well I can ramble for days but there is really so much more to a person that what you can put on a profile. If you want to know something more about me, drop me a line and just ask. I'm pretty much an open book, nothing to hide. I will say one thing, this time I'm going to PROCEED WITH CAUTION!!! I was fortunate enough to find someone that I really loved and cared about on here, thought he was perfect with all his little imperfections and could have seen something more down the road with him but low and behold here I am yet again, the cool friend that's a girl. With that little lesson in love.....caution is the word. If you're looking for something fast you won't find it with me. My coworkers say "Stay off of that site, it's a waste of time" but we shall see.....if nothing else I may end up with a few more friends. We all could use a few good friends. So good luck with your search, hope you find what you are looking for, don't rush it and beware of some of these women on here.....I hear they are brutal :)

  • Emilia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a mom of 3. Music is therapy in my world.... I the cool mom but also strict... I'm funny and love to make others happy..... but I will not tolerate a list be straight and its all good...Enjoy someone to spend time with and who will be interested in me and what I'm Talking about...that's what I'm looking for someone genuine and with morals.... is there any men left with that????? Been out of the dating seen for 20 years prison is how I describe it.......Now its let freedom ring...lol I'm a woman looking for a new start in life, I love the beach, fishing, and motorcycles that run lol...I enjoy chilling with my kids which I have them full time...I can't say much of what I want other than life and happiness.... I am very independent and also needy in certain things...My kids are my world... Nothing will change that,. I haven't been out in over 15 years from being tied to marriage which was a filler of my life, Im looking for what I longed for someone alive, real, no lies, no cheating. So if that's you keep it walking.....I by all means not a High Maintance Woman, just talk communicate play have fun is all I need to keep me satisfied..... And you will never be without respect, or lies... I've learned how to be who I was and am today after being in a violent relationship, who I learned a lot from.... Never say never and trust is earned not demanded... Communication is the way to go ....

  • Latoya

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a good hearted woman looking for a good hearted man. I like someone with a good sense of humor like mine =) as I live to laugh and have fun. I like someone who is quick witted (like me) and can carry a good convo and keep me laughing. When it comes to the serious side of life, I handle my business and would like someone who can handle theirs as well. I like to go out dancing (someone not afraid to cut a rug is extra nice), go out and see a band,karaoke, dinner, comedy shows, concerts, casino, go see a movie or just stay home and snuggle up watching a movie with that someone special. I want someone who knows how to treat a lady and wants trust and mutual respect. Someone willing to cook a nice romantic dinner once in a while NEVER hurts either =)(And it would be reciprocated, of course) I love to sing and write poetry and aspire to write for Hallmark someday =) My taste in music is classic rock, some metal, 80's hairbands, club music to dance to, love songs and even a little bit of country. I love interior design and watch alot of those types of shows on TLC. I am a creative spirit and have a knack for cutting and styling hair (my mom has been a hairdresser for 35 yrs). Two and a Half Men is my all time favorite show. I also like shows like Forensic Files, Dancing With The Stars, American Idol/X Factor and The Bachelor/Bachelorette. I am friendly, funny, honest and sincere and a true friend. These are qualities I admire in someone. I'm not into skinny guys (that's kind of getting picky, huh ?...yeah buddy !!! =) Message me only if you are unmarried and are not looking for a casual encounter. Also, please be within my age range....sorry guys...my preference. I don't respond to people without a pic. If you have a pic of your dog, motorcycle, car, etc...I don't respond to those either. This IS a dating website :) I really hate headgames/drama. I am looking for someone who knows what he wants and is not a serial dater/ player so please don't waste my time or yours....life is short and I always chose to spend my time having alot of fun. I need a man who wants to be my best friend first and develop a good foundation to build a relationship on. The ideal first date would be coffee and good convo. Just break the ice and get to know each other to see if there is any chemistry. After we hit it off, probably a nice dinner and drinks or any of the above mentioned things...the sky's the limit really (anything but sky diving or bunji jumping...nope not goin there LOL)

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